“I Surrender All”

Songs that Speak To My soul: The Song That Found me at nine

There are some songs that don’t just pass through your ears they pass through your soul. They become markers, moments, and memorials of God’s presence in your life. For me, that song was “I Surrender All.” And I was only nine years old when it found me.

I remember it vividly, Sunday service, seating in the pew next to my Godmother; not wanting to be at another church service. Honestly, I wasn't really paying attention, church was something I had to do so I don't get in trouble. 

That particular Sunday, when the choir began to sing, “All to Thee, my blessed Savior, I surrender all,” something inside me broke open. Tears began to streamed down my little face without warning. A warmth filled my chest, gentle, strong, unmistakably holy. It was the first time I experienced God for myself.

God Introduced Me to Surrender Early

What I didn’t realize then was that God was preparing me to the foundation of my entire faith journey: surrender.

Scripture tells us:

“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” — James 4:10

“Cast your burden on the Lord, and He will sustain you.” — Psalm 55:22

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5-6

God was teaching me even as a child that His presence meets us where surrender lives. And life would soon prove that I would need that truth over and over again.

Surrender Became My Anchor

As I grew, life pulled me in different directions. There were seasons I wandered, seasons I resisted God, seasons I thought I knew better. But every time I drifted, surrender pulled me back. It anchored me to that moment at nine years old when the Spirit touched my heart.

No matter how far I ran, God’s invitation remained the same:

“Give it to Me. All of it.”

And every time I returned, I discovered that surrender wasn’t about losing it was about receiving. Scripture reminds us:

“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted.” — Psalm 34:18

“My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Surrender is where God meets us with His nearness, His strength, His direction, and His peace.

The Song That Still Speaks to My Soul

Even now, when I hear “I Surrender All,” I’m transported back to that sacred moment, the tears, the warmth, the undeniable presence of God. It reminds me that every breakthrough, every healing, every turning point in my life began with surrender.

When I surrender, God shows up.
He always has.
He still does.
And He always will.

Prayer

Father, thank You for every moment You’ve marked our lives with Your presence. Thank You for calling us whether as a child or an adult into the beauty of surrender. Help us to release what weighs us down and trust that Your hands are stronger than ours. Teach us to surrender daily, fully, and joyfully. May Your Spirit continue to meet us in those moments where our hearts say, “All to Thee, my blessed Savior, I surrender all.” Strengthen our faith, guide our steps, and draw us deeper into Your love.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“Great Is Your Mercy”

Songs that speak to My soul

There are moments in our walk with God when a single song becomes more than melody, it becomes a lifeline. It wraps around our weary places, breathes hope into our discouraged hearts, and reminds us of the God who never lets go.

For me, one of those songs is:

“Great is Your mercy toward me,
Your loving-kindness toward me,
Your tender mercies I see day after day…”

Every time these words rise, I am reminded of Lamentations 3:22–23:

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”

There is something deeply personal about singing of God’s mercy not mercy in theory, but mercy that has met you, carried you, and restored you. Mercy that reached into the moments when you weren’t sure you’d make it. Kindness that covered you when you could not cover yourself. Provision that showed up not once, but again and again and again.

This song speaks to my soul because it reminds me of the God who did not give up on me, the God who provided even when I did not know what I needed, the God whose faithfulness outlasted my fears.

For the next few blogs, I'd love to explore the songs that take hold of your heart and take you to a place where you are transported to a place of pure worship. 

• What is the song that holds your heart?

• What worship lyric carried you through a season?

• What melody reminds you of the God who sees, heals, and restores?

Your story may be the encouragement someone else desperately needs.

Prayer

Father, we thank You for Your unfailing mercy; mercy that meets us every morning with new strength, new hope, and new grace. Thank You for the songs You use to minister to our hearts and for the way You speak through worship when words fail us.

As we begin this journey of sharing the songs that speak to our souls, let every testimony bring healing, connection, and renewed faith.

Touch every heart that reads, listens, or shares. Draw us closer to You, the One who is forever faithful.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

When Grief Meets Faith

Finding God in the Pain of Loss

Grieving the loss of a loved one is one of the deepest pains we can experience. It shakes the heart, interrupts our peace, and leaves us trying to make sense of a life that suddenly feels incomplete. And when that loss is unexpected, the shock can feel unbearable. As Christians, we know that this world is not our forever home, but knowing truth and feeling comfort are sometimes miles apart.

Losing a child, a parent, a close friend, or a beloved family member can tear through even the strongest faith. Sometimes we don’t just cry we question. We argue. We feel anger toward God. We wonder why healing didn’t come when we prayed, believed, and stood in faith. And though Scripture tells us, “to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord,” those words may not soothe us in the moment. The promise is real, but the pain is real too.

I remember when I lost my grandmother, a woman whose presence shaped my life in ways I’m still discovering. Her passing felt like a part of my heart had been taken with her. I wanted my children to know her the way I did, to hear her laughter, to feel her love, to be nurtured by her wisdom. I felt robbed of time. There were milestones I longed for her to witness, memories I pictured her being part of, stories I wanted her to tell my kids just like she told me.

Her homegoing service was one of the hardest days of my life. I cried in ways I didn’t know were possible. And even many years later, I still catch myself talking to her, missing her voice, her joy, her guidance. Grief changes, but it doesn’t disappear. Yet every time my heart feels heavy, I run to the hope found in 1 Thessalonians 4 a reminder that those who die in Christ do not die in vain. They are not lost. They are not gone forever. They are simply home.

In that chapter, Paul tells us not to grieve as those who have no hope. It doesn’t say not to grieve at all because God knows we will. But we grieve differently. We grieve with the quiet strength of knowing resurrection is real. We grieve with the reassurance that our loved ones are more alive now than they ever were here. We grieve with the promise that one day, we will be reunited.

Grief may visit, but hope remains.

If you’re navigating loss today, remember this: God is not offended by your pain. He can handle your questions. He can sit with you in your anger. He can hold you through your tears. His love for you is not fragile it’s everlasting. And even in the moments when you feel furthest from Him, He is closest to the brokenhearted.

Your story isn’t over. Neither is theirs. Heaven is real, reunion is certain, and until then, God walks with you every step of the journey.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for being near to the brokenhearted and for holding us in moments when grief feels heavier than we can bear. Lord, comfort every heart that mourns today. Remind us of Your promises, strengthen our faith, and help us to trust You even when we don’t understand. Wrap us in Your peace, and let the hope of Heaven calm every storm inside us. Thank You for the precious memories of our loved ones and for the gift of eternal life through Jesus Christ. Until we meet them again, carry us in Your arms.

Amen.

The “I Wills” of God

A Promise Stronger Than the Storm!

There are moments in life when the weight feels unbearable when the world seems determined to break you, silence you, or convince you that you are alone. I’ve lived through seasons like that. Seasons where the night felt endless and hope felt like a distant memory. But it was in those very moments that I learned something powerful: God’s “I Will” is stronger than life’s “You can’t.”

When I didn’t have the strength to stand, God said, “I will uphold you.”

When I couldn’t see a path forward, God said, “I will make a way.”

When my heart was shattered, God said, “I will heal you.”

When fear whispered lies, God said, “I will be with you.”

It wasn’t my confidence, my strength, or my courage that carried me through it was His promises. I discovered that the God of the Bible speaks in declarations, not suggestions. His “I Will’s” are not possibilities; they are certainties. They do not depend on my perfection but on His faithfulness.

God’s “I Will” Is a Lifeline

In Scripture, God repeatedly says, “I will.” Not “I might,” not “I’ll try,” not “If things work out.” But “I will.”

“I will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5)

“I will strengthen you and help you.” (Isaiah 41:10)

“I will restore you.” (Jeremiah 30:17)

“I will give you peace.” (John 14:27)

When I started holding onto those promises not just reading them but believing them something deep within me shifted. The battles didn’t disappear, but I stopped fighting them alone. The things that were meant to break me ended up becoming the places where God rebuilt me.

The enemy tried to use hardship to bury me, but God used it to plant me. And what grows from a seed buried in faith can never be uprooted by fear.

Looking back, I realize every tear watered my resilience, every setback strengthened my character, and every battle taught me how to trust God more deeply. I didn’t just survive I grew. I didn’t just endure I overcame. Not because I am strong, but because He said, “I will,” and He kept His word.

God’s promises spoke louder than my pain. His “I will” became the anthem that carried me from brokenness to victory.

And He is not finished. If He said, “I will,” then He will.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for every promise You have spoken over my life. Thank You for being faithful even in the moments when I was weary, uncertain, or afraid. Teach me to trust Your “I Will’s” more than I trust my own strength. Remind me that Your plans are good, Your timing is perfect, and Your Word is unshakable.

Lord, continue to guide me, restore me, and lift me into every purpose You have prepared. Let my life be a testimony of Your power, Your love, and Your faithfulness. May Your promises anchor my heart in every season.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Knowing Who You Are in Christ

One of the greatest struggles many of us face is understanding who we truly are. From the moment we are born, voices begin shaping our identity, parents, siblings, teachers, friends, spouses, even society itself. We begin to wear the labels they give us, sometimes without even realizing it. For many, those labels are affirming and life-giving. But for others and for many seasons of our lives the labels can feel heavy, hurtful, or limiting.

I know this deeply because I lived it.

For years, I walked around carrying names that were never meant for me. Not smart enough. Not good enough. Not pretty enough. Not capable. Never going to be anything. Those words carved themselves into how I saw myself and how I believed others saw me. They became the mirror I used to measure my worth.

It’s amazing how powerful other people’s words can be, how quickly they can lift us up or tear us down. Praise fills us with joy, but criticism can linger like a shadow that refuses to fade. Sometimes the harshest voices are the ones we hear in our own heads, repeating what someone else once said.

But then something changed.

It wasn’t sudden. It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t dramatic. It was gentle… persistent… loving. It was God.

I began to listen, truly listen to what He said about me. In Scripture, in prayer, in the quiet moments when my heart was tired and cracked open, God began whispering a different identity over my life.

He said I was chosen.

He said I was loved.

He said I was redeemed.

He said I was fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).

He said I had a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

He said I was His masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10).

Slowly, the old labels began to lose their grip. I started to exchange the lies I had believed for the truth God had spoken. And the more I listened, the clearer it became: Who God says I am matters far more than what anyone else believes.

I learned my worth not through the approval of people, but through the unwavering love, grace, and favor of a God who never once saw me as “not enough.” In His eyes, I was always more than enough because I was His.

And when you know Whose you are, you begin to understand who you are.

If you’ve been carrying the weight of someone else’s words, if you’ve been defining yourself by what broke you, silenced you, or belittled you I want you to know this: those labels are not your identity. God has named you, claimed you, and called you. His words over your life are the ones that matter. His truth is the one that endures.

And His truth is this: You are loved. You are valuable. You are chosen. You are enough.

A Prayer for Identity

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for seeing us fully and loving us completely. Thank You for calling us Your own and speaking life over us even when the world speaks otherwise. Lord, help us release every false label we’ve carried, every hurtful word, every limiting belief, every shadow that has tried to define us.

Teach us to hear Your voice above all others. Remind us daily of who we are in You: chosen, redeemed, cherished, and created with purpose. Restore our confidence where it has been broken, heal our hearts where they have been wounded, and strengthen our spirits to walk boldly in the identity You’ve given us.

Let Your truth take root deep within us so that we may live not out of fear or insecurity, but out of the fullness of Your love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Seeking God in a Self-Obsessed World

Lately, when I look at the world around me, I feel a heaviness I’ve never quite experienced before. Everywhere I turn, I see a level of self-obsession and self-preservation that seems to overshadow compassion. Our culture has become centered on instant gratification, quick money, quick approval, quick success. Patience is rare, empathy is dwindling, and genuine care for others feels like a fading virtue.

And perhaps what hurts the most is how little we see people seeking God anymore.

The fear of the Lord that reverent awe that grounds our lives and shapes our decisions seems almost nonexistent. Yet Scripture gives us a simple, powerful command: “Seek ye first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33). Not seek ourselves, not seek worldly validation, not seek short-term reward but seek Him. The One who knows what we need long before we do. The One who created us with purpose, with intention, with love.

When I think about how far society has drifted from this truth, my heart aches. The selfishness around us and sometimes within us can be overwhelming. The Bible teaches us to carry one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), but too often we become the source of someone else’s pain rather than the support God calls us to be. We are living through a true crisis of humanity, where so many are hurting and so few feel seen.

But even in this, I hear God whisper to my heart.

I want to be a blessing. I want to be a reason someone feels the love, kindness, and compassion that seems missing in our world. So every day, I ask God to soften my heart to make my words gentle, my actions gracious, and my presence healing. Not because I am perfect, but because I want others to see Him through me.

And the beautiful truth is this: when we seek God’s grace to love others better, we open ourselves to receiving His grace in our own lives. When we choose compassion over convenience, humility over ego, patience over frustration, something shifts. God meets us in that place. He fills the gaps we cannot fill on our own. He transforms the parts of us that the world has hardened.

In a culture obsessed with self, may we be people obsessed with God.

May we be reminders of His love, His gentleness, His kindness, and His truth.

May our lives reflect the light the world desperately needs.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

In a world that feels increasingly cold and self-focused, soften our hearts. Help us seek You first in all things. Fill us with Your compassion so we can carry the burdens of others with love and humility. Let our words, our actions, and our presence reflect who you are. Open our eyes to see those who are hurting, open our ears to hear their needs, and open our hearts to respond with grace. Transform us so that others may see You in us. Use our lives as a light in a dark world.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

The Power Within Us

Walking in His mighty strength

There are moments in life when we feel powerless, when our strength seems small and our faith feels fragile. Yet, even in those moments, God’s Word reminds us of a truth that can reignite our spirit and restore our confidence in Him.

Ephesians 1:19 (KJV) declares:

“And what is the exceeding greatness of His power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of His mighty power.”

This verse is a divine reminder that the same power that raised Christ from the dead is the very power that lives within us as believers. It’s not our own might that carries us through the storms, but His. When we walk by faith, we tap into that supernatural strength that defies human limitation.

I can recall a time when I felt completely worn out, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. My prayers felt weak, my hope felt distant, and I questioned whether I had anything left to give. But it was in that still, quiet place that God whispered to my heart: “My power is made perfect in weakness.” Suddenly, I realized it was never about my ability to hold on it was about His power holding me.

Every trial, every test, and every tear becomes an opportunity for His strength to shine through us. When we surrender our will and rest in His promises, we no longer walk in defeat, but in divine empowerment. The same Spirit that moved mountains and opened seas is the same Spirit that lives in you.

So today, let’s give glory and honor to the Most High not just for what He’s done, but for who He is. He is our strength when we are weak, our hope when life feels uncertain, and our peace in the midst of chaos. His power knows no end, and His love never fails.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with grateful hearts, giving all glory and honor to Your holy name. Thank You for the mighty power that works within us, the same power that raised Jesus from the grave. Lord, strengthen our faith and remind us daily that we are never alone, for You are our refuge and strength. Fill us with Your Spirit, guide our steps, and let our lives reflect Your glory. May we walk boldly in Your purpose, trusting fully in Your promises.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Honoring God in Everything We Do

After this I heard what sounded like the roar of a great multitude in heaven shouting: ‘Hallelujah! Salvation and glory and power belong to our God.’” – Revelation 19:1 (NIV)

There is a sound in Heaven — a mighty roar of praise that never ceases. It is the sound of honor, the sound of worship, the sound of complete surrender to the One who reigns forever. Revelation 19:1 gives us a glimpse of that moment: the hosts of Heaven crying out in unison, proclaiming the greatness and majesty of our God.

When we read this, it reminds us that honoring God is not limited to the songs we sing on Sunday mornings or the prayers we whisper in quiet moments. It’s a lifestyle. It’s how we live, speak, work, and love. It’s reflected in every choice we make when no one is watching and when the world is paying attention.

To honor God in everything we do means to give Him glory in the ordinary and the extraordinary. It’s in the way we treat others with grace. It’s in the patience we show when life tests us. It’s in the diligence with which we work, knowing that our efforts are an offering to Him.

There was a time in my life when I thought honoring God meant doing “big things” for Him: serving in visible ways, speaking on platforms, or accomplishing something notable. But God gently reminded me that He values faithfulness more than fame. Honoring Him begins in the quiet moments choosing kindness over frustration, integrity over convenience, prayer over worry.

When we live with this heart posture, our lives become a reflection of Heaven’s song: “Hallelujah! Salvation and glory and power belong to our God.”

Let every word we speak, every task we take on, and every decision we make become a hallelujah that rises up to Him. The world may not always notice, but Heaven does.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the reminder that all glory, honor, and power belong to You alone. Teach us to live each day in a way that reflects Your goodness and grace. Help us to honor You not just with our words, but through our actions, attitudes, and hearts. May our lives echo the praise of Heaven, declaring Your greatness in all we do.

We give You all the glory for every breath, every blessing, and every moment belongs to You.

In Jesus’ Name,
Amen

Gratitude in the Midst of Tragedy

This week, I was once again reminded of God’s incredible grace not just over my life, but over the lives of those I love. The enemy came against us, testing our faith and our peace. Yet even in the middle of pain, fear, and helplessness, we knew exactly who was in control.

The Bible reminds us in Isaiah 54:17, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper.” We stood firmly on that promise. Tragedy tried to take center stage, but God’s grace refused to leave the scene. His presence was undeniable a calm in the chaos, a light in the darkness, a shield when the storm raged.

What we went through was terrifying. We saw how quickly things could have gone wrong, how easily loss and heartbreak could have become our reality. But God… God stepped in. The outcome that could have devastated us became a testimony that now fuels our faith. What the enemy meant for harm, God turned into victory.

Now we have what I like to call a “God did it” testimony.

Because He truly did.

Although the aftermath lingers, the recovery slow, the emotions still raw, gratitude fills our hearts. Every day, we choose to thank God for His protection, His mercy, and His unshakable hand on our lives. Gratitude is our weapon now. Praise is our declaration.

No matter what the enemy tries to throw at us, we know without a shadow of doubt that our God is bigger. He is the same God who parted the Red Sea for Moses, who brought down giants for David, and who shut the mouths of lions for Daniel. That same God is still working miracles today in our lives, in our homes, in our hearts.

So, even in the midst of tragedy, we give thanks. Because gratitude is not just what we offer after the victory it’s what carries us through the battle.

A Prayer of Gratitude and Strength

Heavenly Father,

We come before You today with hearts full of gratitude. Even in our pain, we recognize Your presence. Even in our fear, we feel Your peace. Lord, thank You for covering us with Your grace when the enemy tried to destroy us. Thank You for being our refuge and our strength, our ever-present help in times of trouble.

We may still be healing, but we are not defeated. We may still be waiting for full restoration, but we stand in victory because You are faithful. Help us, Lord, to always see Your hand at work, even when the road is hard and the nights feel long. Teach us to remain thankful in every season, trusting that You are working all things together for our good.

We give You all the glory, all the honor, and all the praise because, truly, God did it.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen

When God’s Favor Is on Your Life

There’s something truly powerful about the favor of God. When His favor rests upon your life, even the impossible becomes possible. Doors you never thought would open suddenly swing wide. Mountains move, hearts soften, and what once seemed out of reach starts to fall perfectly into place. God’s favor has a way of turning every situation, no matter how bleak into a testimony of victory.

I can say this with confidence because I’ve lived it. Looking back over my life and even now, I see God’s favor written all over my story. From healing that doctors couldn’t explain, to unexpected job opportunities, financial breakthroughs, and protection over my children.  God’s hand has been there every step of the way. His favor has carried me through valleys and set me on mountaintops I never imagined standing upon.

There were times I didn’t know how I was going to make it. Times when I felt hopeless, when the weight of the world seemed too heavy to bear. Yet somehow, things shifted. Out of nowhere, blessings appeared, situations turned around, and peace flooded my heart. That’s when I knew it was nothing but God’s favor working on my behalf.

The Bible reminds us in Psalm 5:12 (NIV),

“Surely, Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.”

God’s favor isn’t just a momentary blessing it’s a covering. It surrounds us, protects us, and propels us toward His divine purpose. When you walk in His favor, you can rest assured that even when life feels uncertain, God is already working behind the scenes for your good.

And here’s the beautiful truth: God’s favor is not earned; it’s given. It’s His grace in action unmerited, undeserved, yet freely poured out on His children. All He asks is that we trust Him, remain faithful, and keep our hearts aligned with His will.

So, if you’re in a season where things seem unclear, hold on. Don’t lose hope. God’s favor is still at work even when you can’t see it. He’s positioning you for something greater than you could ever imagine.

A Prayer for God’s Favor

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for Your endless favor over my life. Even when I don’t see it, I know You are working all things together for my good. Lord, help me to walk boldly in the confidence that Your hand is upon me. Teach me to recognize Your blessings, to remain grateful in all circumstances, and to trust Your timing.

Surround me, my family, and everyone reading this with Your divine favor like a shield. Open doors that no man can shut, turn challenges into opportunities, and let Your glory be revealed through every victory. May my life always reflect Your goodness and grace.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen

A Season of Gratitude

Gathering at the Table

As we step into the beautiful month of November, our hearts naturally begin to turn toward gratitude. It’s that special time of year when families and friends come together, gather around the table, and celebrate the countless blessings that God has poured into our lives.

Thanksgiving is more than just a holiday. It’s a moment of reflection, a sacred pause to recognize the hand of God in every season. It’s an opportunity to remember not only the big miracles that took our breath away, but also the quiet moments where God’s presence carried us through. Sometimes His greatest blessings come in the smallest, most ordinary ways a kind word, a door opened, peace in the middle of chaos, or strength when we thought we had none left.

When we gather at the table, something truly holy happens. It’s not just about the food we share, but the fellowship we experience. The table is where laughter echoes, stories unfold, and hearts connect. It’s where generations come together to remember what matters most.

Even Jesus valued the table. Before His crucifixion, He sat with His disciples and broke bread with them, saying, “Do this in remembrance of me.” (Luke 22:19). What a powerful reminder that gathering together is sacred. It’s a reflection of God’s love, unity, and grace. Jesus knew that the table wasn’t just a place for eating. It was a place for communion, reflection, and gratitude.

This year, I have so much to be thankful for — not just the big, visible blessings, but all the subtle ways God has shown up for me. The moments of peace, the unexpected provisions, the comfort in times of uncertainty are all reminders that He is faithful, always.

But let’s not wait for a holiday to celebrate God’s goodness. Let thankfulness become a way of life. Gather often. Share a meal. Tell your stories. Laugh, pray, and rejoice in the goodness of the Lord. Every gathering can be a moment of worship when we pause to remember who He is and what He’s done.

As we enter this Thanksgiving season, may our hearts overflow with gratitude not because life is perfect, but because God is present in every detail of it.

A Thanksgiving Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with hearts full of gratitude. Thank You for the gift of family, friends, and the blessing of gathering at the table. Thank You for Your provision, Your faithfulness, and the countless ways You show up in our lives, seen and unseen.

As we share our meals and our memories this season, help us to see You in every smile, every laugh, and every story told. Teach us to live with thankful hearts each day, not just on Thanksgiving. May our tables be filled with love, our homes with peace, and our lives with joy that comes from You alone.

In Jesus’ name we pray,
Amen

The Importance of Grace When Dealing with Hurt and Unmet Expectations

Life has a way of testing our patience, our faith, and our character. There are times when people will disappoint us sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. Expectations go unmet, words are said that can’t be taken back, and actions can leave deep wounds. In those moments, it’s easy to let frustration, anger, or resentment take control. But as I continue to grow in my walk with God, I’m learning more and more about the importance of grace.

Grace is not always easy to give, especially when the hurt runs deep. It’s hard to show grace to people who are selfish, set in their ways, entitled, or just plain ungrateful. Sometimes it feels unfair to extend kindness when all you’ve received is disrespect or disappointment. I’ve been there, ready to respond out of hurt, ready to prove a point, ready to walk away without a second thought. But each time I stop and pray, God reminds me: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)

That scripture hits differently when you’re the one feeling weak, when you’re fighting to respond with love instead of anger. The truth is, we’re all imperfect. We all fall short, make mistakes, and fail to meet the expectations of others. Yet, God continues to give us grace over and over again. He doesn’t love us less when we mess up. He doesn’t hold grudges or throw our failures in our faces. Instead, He forgives us and teaches us through His unconditional love.

So, if God gives me grace freely, who am I to withhold it from others? That doesn’t mean allowing people to mistreat you or staying in toxic situations it means learning to respond with wisdom, not wrath. It means pausing, breathing, and asking God to help you see the situation through His eyes.

There are times when I have to literally stop myself and ask, “Is this moment worth me stepping out of character? Or should I walk away and protect my peace?” I’ll be honest sometimes I don’t get it right. But I’m trying. I’m learning that walking in grace doesn’t make you weak; it makes you strong enough to choose peace over pride. It takes maturity and faith to say, “God, I release this. Handle it for me.”

When you choose grace, you choose growth. You choose to reflect God’s love even in the most difficult moments. And that’s how true healing begins by allowing grace to do what anger never can.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your endless grace and mercy. Thank You for loving me even when I fall short. Lord, help me to extend that same grace to others, even when it’s hard. Teach me to pause before I react, to lean on Your guidance, and to walk in peace. Give me strength to choose grace over anger, forgiveness over bitterness, and wisdom over pride. Let my actions reflect Your heart, and may Your grace continue to shape me into who You’ve called me to be.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

God Can Heal Our Land

There’s no denying the heaviness in the air. Turn on the news, scroll through social media, or simply look around, and you can feel it fear, hate, division, and confusion. Our world feels torn apart, and our nation seems to be struggling to find its footing. But as children of God, we must remember that none of this is new to Him. He is not surprised by our brokenness, and He is not absent in our chaos.

The Bible tells us in 2 Chronicles 7:14 (KJV): “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”

Those words are not just ancient promises they are alive and relevant today. God has healed nations before. He delivered His people from bondage, from oppression, from fear. He split seas, moved mountains, and restored what was lost. And He can do it again.

Right now, we are witnessing hearts growing cold and compassion being replaced with judgment. But even in this darkness, there is hope. There is still a remnant of believers who choose to love, forgive, and trust God’s sovereignty. The same God who heard the cries of His people in Egypt still hears our prayers today.

If we truly want change not just in our homes but in our country, we must return to God. We must lay down pride, prejudice, and political division and pick up prayer, faith, and unity. Healing will not come from a government, a movement, or a person it will come from God. When we align our hearts with His will, He can break every barrier, soften hardened hearts, and bring people together in ways we could never imagine.

This is a time to pray without ceasing. To intercede for our leaders, our communities, our children, and our nation. It’s a time to seek God’s face and trust that even when we don’t understand what He’s doing, His plan is still perfect.

So, let us hold on to hope. Let us believe in the power of a turnaround because God has never failed, and He never will.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You today with heavy hearts but hopeful spirits. Our nation is hurting, divided, and in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You said that if Your people would humble themselves and pray, You would heal their land. So, we stand on that promise today. Heal our hearts, Lord. Remove the spirit of fear, hatred, and confusion, and replace it with Your peace, love, and unity.

Touch the hearts of leaders, heal the wounds of the broken, and remind us that we are all Your children. Let Your will be done  not only in our lives but in our country. We trust You to bring restoration, revival, and reconciliation.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen

Letting Go

Trusting God When It’s Time to Walk Away

 “I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread.” – Psalm 37:25

There comes a moment in life when God whispers, “It’s time to let go.” Sometimes, that whisper feels like a thunderstorm in your heart because letting go isn’t easy. Whether it’s a job, a friendship, or a relationship, walking away from something familiar can feel like losing a part of yourself. But I’ve learned that sometimes, walking away is not a sign of weakness it’s an act of faith.

When you know your worth, you begin to realize that staying in places where you are not valued doesn’t honor the God who created you. You were made in His image fearfully and wonderfully made and that means you deserve to be in spaces that recognize your light.

Still, walking away should never be done out of anger or bitterness. It should come from a place of prayer, peace, and discernment. Before you take that step, seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to lead your path and to prepare what’s next. He is not a God of confusion He is a God of clarity, peace, and provision.

If you’re in a job where you’re overlooked and undervalued, don’t let fear of the unknown hold you hostage. Remember, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) The same God who blessed you with that position can open another door  one that honors both your purpose and your peace. His Word reminds us that the righteous will never be forsaken or beg for bread. He will sustain you, provide for you, and bless the work of your hands.

If you’re in a relationship or friendship where love and respect are one-sided, don’t shrink yourself to fit someone else’s comfort. You are enough. You do not need to beg for affection, loyalty, or kindness. God’s love for you is unconditional and when you walk in that truth, you no longer settle for less than what you deserve.

I’m learning this personally. I no longer make excuses when I feel unvalued. I don’t chase validation or acceptance. I stand firm in knowing who I am and Whose I am. My worth doesn’t come from people it comes from God. And because of that, I can let go without losing myself.

So, if you feel God tugging on your heart to move on, trust Him. Don’t let fear keep you stuck in what He’s trying to free you from. Sometimes, walking away is the first step toward walking into greater.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me of my worth and value in You. Give me the strength to let go of anything or anyone that no longer serves my purpose. Help me to walk away in peace, not in anger, and to trust that You are leading me into better. Provide for me, Lord, and order my steps toward the blessings You’ve already prepared. I trust You to open new doors and to guide me with wisdom and discernment.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen

The Importance of Family

Family —  it’s one of the greatest gifts God has given us, but also one of the hardest to maintain. It doesn’t always look like we imagined. Sometimes family is biological, sometimes it’s chosen, and sometimes it’s a beautiful blend of both. But no matter how it’s formed, love is the glue that holds family together.

For me, I’ve been fortunate to create family with people from all walks of life. Some have stayed for a season, others for a lifetime. Each connection taught me something valuable about love, loyalty, and forgiveness. I’ve learned that family isn’t defined by blood it’s defined by bond. It’s about who shows up when the world turns cold, who covers you in prayer when life gets heavy, and who celebrates you even when you can’t see your own worth.

The Bible reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:7 that “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Real family, the kind rooted in God’s love endures. It forgives. It gives grace when we least deserve it. But it also recognizes when to step back and protect peace. Family relationships can be complicated; they take work, humility, and a willingness to grow. Sometimes you’ll have to love from a distance, and that’s okay. Distance doesn’t erase love it just creates space for healing.

Over time, I’ve learned the beauty of being surrounded by people who love, support, uplift, and show up for me. That is family. It’s not always perfect, but it’s real. It’s the reflection of God’s heart a place where you can be seen, heard, and embraced, flaws and all.

If you’ve been blessed with that kind of family, nurture it. Protect it. Thank God for it daily. And if you’re still praying for it, know that He is faithful. God places people in our lives for purpose some for a lifetime, others for a lesson but all to shape us into who He created us to be.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of family both born and chosen. Thank You for the people who love us, support us, and stand by us through every season. Lord, teach us to love with patience, to forgive with grace, and to nurture the relationships You’ve entrusted to us. Help us to be the kind of family that reflects Your heart compassionate, understanding, and steadfast. Heal the broken bonds and bring peace where there has been pain. May our homes and hearts always be filled with Your love.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Guard Your Heart from Jealousy and Envy

Jealousy and envy are quiet destroyers. They sneak into our hearts disguised as comparison, insecurity, or frustration, but their goal is always the same to rob us of peace, gratitude, and joy. What’s even more dangerous is how easily they can delay, or even remove, the blessings God has for us.

I’ve experienced this firsthand. I’ve lost friendships not because I bragged or flaunted what I had, but simply because I wanted better for my life. I prayed for everything I have — every blessing, every challenge, every open door — and I remain grateful, even for the hard parts. But what hurt the most wasn’t the loss of things. It was realizing that some people I thought would celebrate with me, couldn’t. Instead of clapping when God blessed me, they made hurtful remarks or distanced themselves.

At first, it stung. But then God showed me something powerful: sometimes He allows certain reactions to reveal hearts that cannot go with you to the next level. He separates you not to punish you, but to protect your peace and preserve your purpose.

The Bible says in James 3:16 (NIV), “For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.”

That verse hit me hard. Envy doesn’t just poison relationships it invites confusion and chaos into our lives. It blinds us to our own blessings and makes us resent the very people we’re supposed to love.

We have to learn to rejoice when others win. Your friend’s success doesn’t threaten yours — it confirms that God is still in the blessing business. The same way you want to be celebrated, so do others. We each have different gifts, different seasons, and different stories. What’s for someone else will never fit you, and what’s meant for you will never miss you.

God made us all unique in His image. You are not better or worse — you are chosen, handcrafted, and purposed by Him. When you learn to be content and genuinely happy for others, you make room for God to bless you, too. Gratitude multiplies what envy tries to destroy. Let’s choose gratitude over envy, love over comparison, and celebration over competition.

A Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me that my worth and blessings come from You alone. Lord, search my heart and remove any trace of jealousy, envy, or comparison. Teach me to celebrate others with pure joy, knowing that Your timing and plan for my life are perfect.

Help me to trust You in my waiting, to stay grateful in my growing, and to love others freely as You love me. I release every hurt, every disappointment, and every relationship that cannot walk with me into the next season.

May my heart stay humble, my spirit stay grateful, and my words always bring life.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Be Slow to Speak

The Power of a Controlled Tongue

As an overthinker, words have always carried a deep weight for me. When someone speaks, their words don’t just pass through my ears, they linger. I replay them, analyze them, and sometimes, they echo longer than they should. And I’ve learned through experience that words spoken in anger can pierce deeper than any physical wound. No matter how sincere the apology, the sting of those words often remains.

I wasn’t always mindful of my mouth or my emotions. There were seasons in my life when I was quick to respond, quick to defend, quick to lash out and it often left me feeling convicted afterward. I had to learn that just because I could say something didn’t mean I should. The Holy Spirit began to teach me that silence isn’t weakness; it’s wisdom.

The tongue, as Scripture reminds us, is “sharper than any two-edged sword.” Once spoken, words can’t be unsaid. They have the power to build or destroy, to heal or to wound. The phrase “What’s spoken in anger first lived in the heart” is such a sobering reminder. If bitterness, pride, or hurt is what’s in our hearts, it will eventually spill out through our mouths.

That’s why it’s so important to pause before speaking, to breathe, pray, and let God filter our emotions before our words ever leave our lips. Every time we choose silence over reaction, we are giving the Holy Spirit room to work. Every time we choose love over offense, we are reflecting Christ.

So today, let’s make it our intention to speak life. To be slow to speak, quick to listen, and even quicker to forgive. Because our words carry weight and they reveal what truly lives in our hearts.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me of the power that lies in my words. Help me to guard my tongue and control my emotions. When anger rises, calm my spirit. When frustration speaks, silence me until Your peace takes over. Create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit within me. Let my words always reflect Your love, grace, and truth.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Life Can Change in the Blink of an Eye

One of the most sobering realities about life is how quickly it can change. One phone call, one diagnosis, one accident, one unexpected moment and everything you thought was certain can be shaken. The truth is, tomorrow isn’t promised. James 4:14 reminds us, “What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”

That verse isn’t meant to scare us, but to ground us in the truth: life is fragile. And because it is fragile, we should live it with gratitude, intentionality, and purpose.

Too often, we delay joy. We say things like, “One day I’ll travel,” “One day I’ll wear that dress,” “One day I’ll try something new.” But what if that “one day” never comes? What if the opportunity you’re waiting for never arrives because life took a turn you didn’t see coming?

I’ve learned personally that change doesn’t knock on the door before entering — it comes suddenly. And in those moments, I’m reminded that every sunrise is a gift, every laugh with loved ones is a blessing, and every opportunity to show love is an investment in eternity.

God never promised us that life would remain the same. In fact, Ecclesiastes 3 tells us there is a season for everything, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. Seasons shift, and the only constant we have is Christ. That’s why it’s so important to live fully in Him.

Don’t allow fear, insecurity, or even the opinions of others to rob you of living the life God entrusted to you. Wear that dress. Take that trip. Step out in faith toward your calling. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Laugh often. And above all, seek God daily because in Him is the abundant life that doesn’t fade when circumstances change.

Life can change in a blink of an eye, but the good news is, so can you. You can decide today to stop postponing joy, to stop holding back, and to truly live in the freedom and fullness Christ has already given you.

A Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of life and the reminder that each day is precious. Forgive me for the times I’ve taken life for granted or waited too long to embrace the blessings You’ve placed before me. Lord, teach me to live with joy, courage, and gratitude. Help me to walk boldly in the purpose You’ve called me to and to cherish the people and opportunities You’ve placed in my path. When life changes suddenly, remind me that You are my unshakable foundation.

In Jesus’ name,Amen

When Old Wounds Follow Us

Healing Before Loving Again

Relationship trauma leaves marks that don’t just fade with time. They sit deep in our hearts, shaping the way we see love, trust, and connection. I’ve learned through my own experiences that walking into a new relationship while still unhealed is like carrying a heavy suitcase everywhere you go. Eventually, it weighs down not only you, but the person walking beside you.

When you’ve been betrayed, lied to, abandoned, or overlooked, your natural instinct is to protect yourself. The problem is, if healing hasn’t happened, protection can look like walls, silence, suspicion, or distance. Suddenly, the one person who came to love you feels like they’re paying the price for the ones who hurt you.

Trust becomes shaky. Instead of seeing your new partner for who they are, you start searching for red flags, waiting for the same patterns to repeat.

Communication gets cloudy because fear whispers, “Don’t say too much. Don’t be too vulnerable. Don’t let them hurt you.” Intimacy feels unsafe because being open means exposing the very wounds you’ve worked so hard to cover.

And showing up fully becomes almost impossible because part of you is still stuck in the past, carrying memories and pain that were never meant to define your future.

The Bible reminds us in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” God never intended for us to drag our old baggage into new seasons. His desire is for us to release it, surrender it, and allow Him to heal what was broken so that love can flourish the way He designed it to.

Healing doesn’t happen overnight, but it does happen when we invite God into the deepest parts of our pain. Counseling, prayer, self-reflection, and patience with ourselves are all tools God uses to restore what was shattered. And when we commit to that healing, we don’t just free ourselves, we give our future relationships a chance to thrive without being choked by the past.

Friend, don’t let old wounds rob you of new joy. Your heart deserves wholeness. Your partner deserves the best version of you, not the broken version that past trauma left behind. And most importantly, God wants to use your healing as a testimony that His love is greater than any heartbreak you’ve endured.

Prayer

Father, I come before You with an open heart. You see the wounds I’ve carried and the pain that still lingers from past relationships. Lord, I surrender my brokenness to You. Heal the places that are still tender, release me from the weight of old baggage, and help me to walk in the freedom You’ve promised. Teach me to trust again, to love without fear, and to show up fully for the people You’ve placed in my life. May every relationship I enter reflect Your love, Your grace, and Your healing power.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Renewed Mind, Renewed Life

One of the greatest gifts God has given us is the ability to grow, change, and transform. Romans 12:2 reminds us: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”

We are not meant to settle in life. Just as we strive for better jobs, bigger dreams, and even new homes, God also calls us to strive for renewal in our hearts and minds. Staying stuck in old habits, routines, or ways of thinking can feel safe, but safety doesn’t always mean growth. There’s nothing wrong with traditions or the old ways of doing things, but when we cling to them out of stubbornness, fear, or control, we rob ourselves of the life God is trying to lead us into.

I’ve learned this lesson personally. I’m not the same person I was ten years ago honestly; I’m not even the same person I was two years ago. Every season of my life has pushed me to evolve mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I’ve discovered that a renewed mind means choosing to release the old patterns that no longer serve me and being brave enough to embrace what God has in store next.

Life is meant to be lived with open hands and an open heart. When we try new things whether it’s experiencing a new culture, tasting a different cuisine, or listening to unfamiliar music we give ourselves permission to see the world in fresh ways. Being open-minded does not diminish who we are; it expands us. It creates room for compassion, grace, and understanding.

I used to think life had to be “my way,” but when I opened myself up to seeing things through another perspective, I realized how much beauty and growth I had been missing. It’s in those moments of openness that I’ve become more accepting, more loving, and more like the person God created me to be.

A renewed mind is not about abandoning who you are, t’s about allowing God to refine you into who you are becoming. And that journey never ends.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank you for the gift of renewal and transformation. Help me to release old habits, patterns, and ways of thinking that no longer align with Your will for my life. Give me the courage to be open, the wisdom to discern, and the grace to embrace growth in every area of my life. May my mind be renewed daily so that I may walk in the fullness of who You created me to be. Teach me to live with compassion, openness, and love, reflecting Your heart in all that I do.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen