Living Intentionally

A New Year, A New Alignment

As a new year begins, it offers us more than a fresh calendar it offers a sacred invitation. An invitation to pause, reflect, and choose how we want to live. Not on autopilot. Not by default. But with intention.

To live intentionally is to live awake. It means recognizing that our time, energy, words, habits, and mindset are precious gifts from God. Scripture reminds us, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12). Each day matters. Each choice matters.

Learning what I want in my life has been a struggle. Getting to know who I am and standing in my truth is not easy. There were seasons where I silenced my own voice to please others, where I dimmed my light to fit expectations that were never meant for me. But this journey though uncomfortable has been holy.

I am learning to choose myself.

To choose my happiness.

To choose joy.

And most importantly, I am learning to walk boldly in the path that God has set for me. That path, God’s path is pure freedom.

The Bible tells us, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do” (Ephesians 2:10). There is a divine purpose woven into who we are. When we live intentionally, we align ourselves with that purpose instead of drifting through life reacting to everything around us.

This year, I am being intentional with my mindset. “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). I am choosing thoughts that bring life, hope, and faith.

I am being intentional with my boundaries. No longer will I allow the opinions of others or the negativity that sometimes surrounds me to dictate how I see myself or how I live. God did not call me to live in fear or approval-seeking. “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7).

I am being intentional with my actions and habits because small daily choices shape big futures. “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established” (Proverbs 16:3).

This year, I am intentionally choosing to live boldly, with no apology.

Not arrogantly.

Not selfishly.

But confidently rooted in who God says I am.

When we choose intention, we choose alignment. When we choose alignment, we choose peace. And when we choose God daily, we discover that obedience and authenticity are not restrictions they are freedom.

A Prayer for the New Year

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of a new year and the grace that carried us through the last one. Thank You for meeting us in our confusion, our growth, and our becoming. As we step into this new season, help us to live intentionally on purpose, with courage, and with faith.

Teach us to choose what aligns with Your will. Give us the strength to release what no longer serves us and the wisdom to walk boldly in our truth. Guard our hearts from negativity, comparison, and fear. Renew our minds and anchor our confidence in You alone.

Lord, help us choose joy, peace, and obedience daily. May we trust the path You’ve set before us, even when it’s unfamiliar. And may we live unapologetically as who You created us to be.

We place this year in Your hands, knowing that where You lead, freedom follows.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Wishing you all a very happy and blessed New Year!!

“You Are my hiding place”

As we come close to the end of our series, I want to share another one of my favorite worship songs. “You Are My Hiding Place” by the group Selah is a song that reminds me again that God is not distant or indifferent; He is a refuge, a safe place in the middle of life’s fiercest storms. The very title comes alive in Psalm 32:7:

You are my hiding place; You will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance. Selah.  Psalm 32:7 

This song speaks of the God who shelters us when fear tries to overwhelm, when the enemy whispers lies, when hurt and anger try to hold our souls in bondage. It doesn’t promise that trouble won’t come but that God Himself will be our covering when it does.

Today, I’m so thankful for a God who is my hiding place. On the days when fear crushed my spirit, when hurt made my heart ache, and when anger seemed stronger than peace, He covered me. His presence steadied my shaking soul. His love quieted the storm inside. His peace became my song.

Just as the psalmist ran to God when the waves rose, so have I learned to run not in fear, but in faith. And in that secret place with Him, I’ve felt strength rise in weakness, courage in doubt, and joy in surrender.

And so, whenever you are facing those though battles just take breath, close your eyes and let your heart be reminded of your hiding place in God's loving arms.

A Prayer for Your Soul

Heavenly Father,

Thank You that You are our hiding place, our refuge, our strength, and our song of deliverance. When fear tries to overwhelm us, remind our hearts of Your promises. When the enemy threatens our peace, shelter us under Your wings.

Surround us with Your presence and fill us with songs of hope that only You can give.

Lord, may we trust You more each day not in our own strength, but in Yours. May Your Word be our comfort, Your Spirit be our guide, and Your love be the shelter where our souls find rest.

We surrender every fear, every burden, and every hurt into Your hands. Teach us to live each moment rooted in You, and may our lives like this song reflect Your faithfulness in every season.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“O, Holy Night”

As we celebrate the birth of our Savior this week, the song I want to share is “O Holy Night.” This song touches my soul in a deeply personal way. Every Christmas, whenever my mom and I are together, we sing it - in French, of course (Minuit Chretiens). It has become more than a tradition; it’s a sacred moment between us, a reminder of faith passed down, love shared, and hope renewed.

“O Holy Night” always brings me back to the heart of Christmas. It reminds me what an extraordinary gift the birth of Jesus truly was. When I strip away all the hustle and bustle of the season the shopping, the spending, the packed schedules, and even the frustrations that seem to come along with modern-day holidays I’m left with something beautifully simple and profoundly powerful: the story of a Savior born for us.

So often we hear the phrase, “Jesus is the reason for the season.” It’s printed on mugs, signs, and Christmas cards. But it’s meant to be more than a catchy saying. It’s meant to be a truth that settles deep in our hearts. Christmas is not just a celebration it’s a declaration. God stepped into our broken world, wrapped in flesh, full of grace and truth.

The words of this song echo the miracle so perfectly:

“Long lay the world in sin and error pining
’Til He appeared and the soul felt its worth.”

What a line. The soul felt its worth. That is the message of Christmas. Jesus’ birth declared our worth before we ever earned it. Scripture tells us, “For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given” (Isaiah 9:6). And in that gift, hope was born.

“A thrill of hope, the weary soul rejoices”.

How many weary souls are there today? Tired from life, burdened by loss, uncertainty, or pain. Yet Christmas reminds us that hope is not a feeling it is a Person. “The people walking in darkness have seen a great light” (Isaiah 9:2). That light still shines.

When the song calls us to “fall on your knees,” it’s more than poetic language. It’s an invitation to surrender, to worship, to remember that we are not alone. The angels proclaimed it that holy night: “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people” (Luke 2:10–11).

This is why Christmas matters. This is why the night was truly divine.

Today, my prayer is that we would pause. That we would quiet the noise, lift our eyes, and let our souls remember their worth. That we would not just celebrate Christmas, but encounter Christ.

A Christmas Prayer

Lord Jesus,

Thank You for coming into our world as a humble child, for stepping into our darkness and bringing Your glorious light. Thank You for reminding us of our worth, not by what we do, but by who You are. As we celebrate Your birth today, help us to see beyond the distractions and focus on the miracle of Emmanuel God with us. Fill weary hearts with hope, anxious minds with peace, and homes with Your love. May our lives reflect the joy of that holy night, not just today, but every day.

We fall on our knees in gratitude and worship.

Amen

“He Knows My Name”

This new song for the series is one that reaches deep into the places where identity is formed and belonging is sealed. Every time I hear it, I’m taken back to my childhood and a story my paternal grandmother used to tell me with so much pride.

She would say that when I was born, she didn’t know at first. But the moment she found out about me; she went looking for me. And when she finally saw me she knew I was hers, but I didn’t carry the family’s last name so she took me home with her and made sure it was changed.

 Every time I heard that story, I felt chosen. Claimed. Known. That name wasn’t just paperwork; it was a declaration that I belonged, that I was hers, that my place in the family was secure.

That is exactly how “He Knows My Name” makes me feel.

“He knows my name
Yes, He knows my name
And oh, how He walks with me
And oh, how He talks with meAnd oh, how He tells me

That I am His own”

For me, knowing who I belong to is deeply tied to my identity. My grandmother gave me the gift of belonging something I still hold onto today. And if knowing who I belong to in my earthly family meant that much, imagine the honor of belonging to the Most High God.

Scripture reminds us of this truth again and again:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart.” (Jeremiah 1:5)

“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; you are Mine.” (Isaiah 43:1)

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” (1 John 3:1)

God doesn’t just know about us He knows us intimately. He knows our name, our story, our wounds, and our purpose. His love for us existed before we took our first breath, before anyone else could claim us. He tells us, just as clearly as my grandmother did through her actions, “You belong to Me.” I will forever be grateful to her for showing me her love through some a bold act. My last name, the name my father and my grandparents share is the bond that sealed our connection. 

This song is a reminder that our identity is not rooted in circumstances, titles, or approval from people. Our identity is anchored in Him. We are His chosen, claimed, and deeply loved.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for knowing my name and calling me Your own. Thank You for loving me before I was formed, for choosing me, and for giving me a place in Your family. When I forget who I am or where I belong, remind me that I am Yours. Walk with me, talk with me, and let Your voice be louder than every doubt. Help me to live confidently in the identity You’ve given me as Your child, loved and secure in You.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“Hallelujah - Salvation and Glory!”

As I continue with our series, more songs are coming to mind. I know I won't get to all of them so here's the next one.

This particular song feels less like music but more like a doorway to worship. The first few notes open something deep inside, places where words alone can’t reach. In those moments, I’m reminded that worship isn’t about performance; it’s about presence. It’s about the soul finally exhaling and remembering who God is and who we are in Him.

This week, the word Hallelujah has been resting heavy and holy on my heart.

Recently, I heard this song again and it touched my heart in a way I can’t ignore. It reminded me of the sheer power of praising God, especially when praise rises from a place of remembrance. Hallelujah is the highest form of praise, and for me, it is not just a word it is a response.

Not as a casual phrase we sing on autopilot, but as a declaration forged in awe.

Hallelujah, salvation and glory and honor and power belong to the Lord our God.

When I sing or hear these words, I don’t imagine perfection or ease. I picture a weary heart lifting its eyes anyway. I picture praise rising not because life is simple, but because God is sovereign. Omnipotent. Mighty beyond comprehension. Wonderful beyond language.

There are days when my faith feels strong and steady, and days when it feels like a whisper. Yet this truth remains unchanged: the Lord our God reigns. Not part-time. Not situationally. Fully. Eternally.

Songs that touch the soul remind us that heaven is not silent. Revelation gives us a glimpse of a great multitude crying out with one voice not out of obligation, but out of overwhelming recognition of God’s glory. Praise erupts naturally when we truly see Him.

And maybe that’s why Hallelujah moves us so deeply. It pulls our focus off ourselves and re-centers it on the One who saves, restores, and reigns. It invites us to join a song that began long before us and will continue long after.

Being grateful is one of the purest ways we express our love to God. Scripture reminds us, “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever” (Psalm 107:1). When I think back on all the things He has done for me, every rescue, every moment of grace, my heart becomes so full with gratitude that praise is the only fitting response.

If you’ve ever heard my testimony or know me personally, then you understand why this song feels like a love song to me.

Yes, the Lord, our God is omnipotent. The Lord, our God, He is wonderful. All praises be to the King of kings And the Lord, our God.

He is worthy of my praise because He brought me back from the very edge from darkness, depression, despair, and places I once thought I’d never escape. The Word says, “He brought them out of darkness, the utter darkness, and broke away their chains” (Psalm 107:14). That verse is not theory for me it is lived truth.

From where I was to where I am now, I cannot remain silent. I have to praise Him with everything in me. Like the song says:

And we’re standing here only because You made a way.

And He did. When there was no path, God made a way (Isaiah 43:19). My life is evidence that His power is real and His mercy is personal.

Even when we don’t have the strength for many words, Hallelujah is enough.

Because it carries surrender. Because it carries trust. Because it carries hope.

Today, I don’t just sing Hallelujah, I testify.

I praise God because I remember where He found me and where He has brought me. I remember nights filled with heaviness, seasons marked by depression and despair, moments where the darkness felt closer than hope. And yet, God met me there. The Bible says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18), and I know this to be true because He did it for me.

When I declare that the Lord our God is omnipotent and wonderful, I’m not repeating lyrics I’m recounting deliverance. I am standing here only because God made a way. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him” (Romans 8:28). What the enemy meant for harm, God used for healing.

So today, let your praise come from remembrance. Let gratitude rise louder than fear. If God has ever carried you, restored you, or rescued you then you already have a song. And sometimes that song is simply:

Hallelujah!

A Prayer of Hallelujah

Lord our God,

Today we lift our voices with heaven and declare: Hallelujah.

Salvation is Yours. Glory is Yours. Honor and power belong to You alone.

You are mighty when we feel weak. You are omnipotent when our world feels out of control. You are wonderful beyond what we can explain or imagine.

Teach our hearts to praise You not only when the music is loud, but when life is quiet, uncertain, or heavy.

Let our Hallelujah rise from gratitude, from trust, and from the deep knowing that You reign forever.

We join the song of heaven and say again: Hallelujah to the Lord our God Almighty.

Amen.

“He Walks With me”

Growing up, the only type of music and songs I was allowed to sing or listen to were gospel. Between Sunday morning worship, choir rehearsal and melodies that filled the sanctuary, music spoke to my spirit long before I understood their meaning. Gospel songs became part of my heartbeat. Even now, certain songs rise up at just the right moment, reminding me of God’s faithfulness and presence.

The next song in this series, "He Walks With Me", has ministered to me deeply over the years. When I was younger, I sang it because it was familiar. I knew the tune, I knew the words—but I didn’t yet know the God behind them.

As I grew older, I walked through seasons where loneliness became a silent companion. I’ve been in rooms full of people and still felt invisible. I tried filling that emptiness with things, people, and moments that brought temporary distraction but not lasting peace.

Scripture teaches us that only God can satisfy the emptiness of the human heart. Psalm 107:9 declares, “For He satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” And that’s exactly what He did for me.

It wasn’t until I invited God into those hollow places that I truly began to understand what it means that He walks with me and talks with me. This truth echoes God’s promise in Isaiah 41:10: “Do not fear, for I am with you… I will strengthen you and help you.”

God’s presence is personal. Close. Intimate. The same God who walked with Adam in the garden (Genesis 3:8) and led Israel by a cloud by day and fire by night (Exodus 13:21) walks with us today through His Spirit.

His voice still calms storms just as Jesus calmed the wind and waves in Mark 4:39. His presence still brings peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). And when He speaks to our hearts, the noise of the world seems to quiet itself just like the song says, His voice is so sweet that even creation pauses to listen.

Now when I think about the lyrics, I don’t just hear a melody I feel the truth of Psalm 23:4:

“Even though I walk through the valley… You are with me.”

This walk with God doesn’t remove challenges, but it reshapes our journey. When you know God is with you, every valley becomes bearable and every mountain becomes climbable. His companionship changes everything.

Prayer

Father, thank You for being the God who walks with us. Thank You for Your promise that You will never leave us nor forsake us (Deuteronomy 31:6). Fill every empty space within us with Your presence and Your peace. Teach us to hear Your voice and trust Your guidance. Help us rest in the truth that we are Yours, and You are with us in every moment. May Your joy, Your comfort, and Your melody stay with us today and always.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“I Understand”

Songs that Speak To My soul: When God Speaks Into Your Silence

As we continue our series, I want to share my next song. Smokie Norful’s “I Understand” is one of those rare, sacred songs that doesn’t just play in your ears… it ministers to the soul.

I still remember the first time I heard it. I was in the middle of a storm I didn’t have the strength to name. Life felt heavy. Responsibilities were piling up. My prayers felt unanswered. And my heart felt like it was stretching under a weight it couldn’t bear.

Then I heard a song that literally snatched my soul, the opening line hit me like a mirror held up to my spirit:

“Sometimes I feel like giving up,

It seems like my best just ain’t good enough…”

I wasn’t just listening to a song

I was listening to the cry of my own heart.

WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE GOD IS SILENT

There’s a certain ache that comes when you start to wonder if God hears you at all. When you pray, but heaven seems still. When you call out yet receive no immediate answer.

The lyric continues:

“Lord, if You hear me, I’m calling You.

Do You see, do You care about what I’m going through?”

How many of us have prayed that exact prayer, maybe not with those exact words, but with the same desperation?

The Bible is full of moments when God’s people asked this same question:

“How long, Lord? Will You forget me forever?” — Psalm 13:1

“Why do You hide Your face from me?” — Psalm 88:14

“My tears have been my food day and night…” — Psalm 42:3

Even David, a man after God’s own heart felt seasons of silence. That alone reminds us that feeling overwhelmed or unheard doesn’t make us weak; it makes us human.

THE SHIFT WHEN GOD SPEAKS

But then the song shifts. The tone softens. The melody grows warm. And suddenly, it’s as though God Himself steps into the lyrics and whispers:

“One more day, one more step…

I’m preparing you for Myself.”

Those words carried me.

Scripture echoes the same message:

“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” — Exodus 14:14

“I will never leave you nor forsake you.” — Hebrews 13:5

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” — Jeremiah 1:5

God doesn’t just see what we’re facing

He is actively shaping, strengthening, and preparing us through it.

Then comes the line that still brings tears to my eyes:

“When you can’t hear My voice,

Please trust My plan.

I’m the Lord, I see, and yes, I understand.”

This is the essence of faith.

Faith is not always about hearing God

sometimes it’s about trusting Him in the silence.

Even when we don’t feel Him, God is present.

Even when we don’t see movement, God is working.

Even when we don’t hear answers, God is planning something greater.

This is the heartbeat of Romans 8:28:

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him…”

HE UNDERSTANDS TRULY

What comforts me most about this song is the reminder that Jesus is not distant from our pain. Scripture tells us:

“We do not have a High Priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses…” — Hebrews 4:15

Jesus knows what it feels like to be tired.

He knows what it feels like to be overwhelmed.

He knows what it feels like to cry out, “Father, why?”

He understands us deeply, tenderly, completely.

Smokie Norful captured that truth so beautifully through this song.

It is a reminder that God is not limited by silence.

He is not late.

He is not overlooking your struggle.

He sees.

He knows.

He understands.

And He is working it out.

Prayer

Father, in the moments when life feels overwhelming and Your voice seems distant, remind us that Your presence has never left us. Teach us to trust Your plan even when we cannot trace Your hand. Thank You for understanding every tear, every fear, and every silent prayer. Strengthen our hearts to take “one more day, one more step,” knowing that You are preparing us for greater things. Wrap us in Your peace, renew our hope, and let Your love carry us through every season.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“I Surrender All”

Songs that Speak To My soul: The Song That Found me at nine

There are some songs that don’t just pass through your ears they pass through your soul. They become markers, moments, and memorials of God’s presence in your life. For me, that song was “I Surrender All.” And I was only nine years old when it found me.

I remember it vividly, Sunday service, seating in the pew next to my Godmother; not wanting to be at another church service. Honestly, I wasn't really paying attention, church was something I had to do so I don't get in trouble. 

That particular Sunday, when the choir began to sing, “All to Thee, my blessed Savior, I surrender all,” something inside me broke open. Tears began to streamed down my little face without warning. A warmth filled my chest, gentle, strong, unmistakably holy. It was the first time I experienced God for myself.

God Introduced Me to Surrender Early

What I didn’t realize then was that God was preparing me to the foundation of my entire faith journey: surrender.

Scripture tells us:

“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” — James 4:10

“Cast your burden on the Lord, and He will sustain you.” — Psalm 55:22

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5-6

God was teaching me even as a child that His presence meets us where surrender lives. And life would soon prove that I would need that truth over and over again.

Surrender Became My Anchor

As I grew, life pulled me in different directions. There were seasons I wandered, seasons I resisted God, seasons I thought I knew better. But every time I drifted, surrender pulled me back. It anchored me to that moment at nine years old when the Spirit touched my heart.

No matter how far I ran, God’s invitation remained the same:

“Give it to Me. All of it.”

And every time I returned, I discovered that surrender wasn’t about losing it was about receiving. Scripture reminds us:

“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted.” — Psalm 34:18

“My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Surrender is where God meets us with His nearness, His strength, His direction, and His peace.

The Song That Still Speaks to My Soul

Even now, when I hear “I Surrender All,” I’m transported back to that sacred moment, the tears, the warmth, the undeniable presence of God. It reminds me that every breakthrough, every healing, every turning point in my life began with surrender.

When I surrender, God shows up.
He always has.
He still does.
And He always will.

Prayer

Father, thank You for every moment You’ve marked our lives with Your presence. Thank You for calling us whether as a child or an adult into the beauty of surrender. Help us to release what weighs us down and trust that Your hands are stronger than ours. Teach us to surrender daily, fully, and joyfully. May Your Spirit continue to meet us in those moments where our hearts say, “All to Thee, my blessed Savior, I surrender all.” Strengthen our faith, guide our steps, and draw us deeper into Your love.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

“Great Is Your Mercy”

Songs that speak to My soul

There are moments in our walk with God when a single song becomes more than melody, it becomes a lifeline. It wraps around our weary places, breathes hope into our discouraged hearts, and reminds us of the God who never lets go.

For me, one of those songs is:

“Great is Your mercy toward me,
Your loving-kindness toward me,
Your tender mercies I see day after day…”

Every time these words rise, I am reminded of Lamentations 3:22–23:

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”

There is something deeply personal about singing of God’s mercy not mercy in theory, but mercy that has met you, carried you, and restored you. Mercy that reached into the moments when you weren’t sure you’d make it. Kindness that covered you when you could not cover yourself. Provision that showed up not once, but again and again and again.

This song speaks to my soul because it reminds me of the God who did not give up on me, the God who provided even when I did not know what I needed, the God whose faithfulness outlasted my fears.

For the next few blogs, I'd love to explore the songs that take hold of your heart and take you to a place where you are transported to a place of pure worship. 

• What is the song that holds your heart?

• What worship lyric carried you through a season?

• What melody reminds you of the God who sees, heals, and restores?

Your story may be the encouragement someone else desperately needs.

Prayer

Father, we thank You for Your unfailing mercy; mercy that meets us every morning with new strength, new hope, and new grace. Thank You for the songs You use to minister to our hearts and for the way You speak through worship when words fail us.

As we begin this journey of sharing the songs that speak to our souls, let every testimony bring healing, connection, and renewed faith.

Touch every heart that reads, listens, or shares. Draw us closer to You, the One who is forever faithful.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

When Grief Meets Faith

Finding God in the Pain of Loss

Grieving the loss of a loved one is one of the deepest pains we can experience. It shakes the heart, interrupts our peace, and leaves us trying to make sense of a life that suddenly feels incomplete. And when that loss is unexpected, the shock can feel unbearable. As Christians, we know that this world is not our forever home, but knowing truth and feeling comfort are sometimes miles apart.

Losing a child, a parent, a close friend, or a beloved family member can tear through even the strongest faith. Sometimes we don’t just cry we question. We argue. We feel anger toward God. We wonder why healing didn’t come when we prayed, believed, and stood in faith. And though Scripture tells us, “to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord,” those words may not soothe us in the moment. The promise is real, but the pain is real too.

I remember when I lost my grandmother, a woman whose presence shaped my life in ways I’m still discovering. Her passing felt like a part of my heart had been taken with her. I wanted my children to know her the way I did, to hear her laughter, to feel her love, to be nurtured by her wisdom. I felt robbed of time. There were milestones I longed for her to witness, memories I pictured her being part of, stories I wanted her to tell my kids just like she told me.

Her homegoing service was one of the hardest days of my life. I cried in ways I didn’t know were possible. And even many years later, I still catch myself talking to her, missing her voice, her joy, her guidance. Grief changes, but it doesn’t disappear. Yet every time my heart feels heavy, I run to the hope found in 1 Thessalonians 4 a reminder that those who die in Christ do not die in vain. They are not lost. They are not gone forever. They are simply home.

In that chapter, Paul tells us not to grieve as those who have no hope. It doesn’t say not to grieve at all because God knows we will. But we grieve differently. We grieve with the quiet strength of knowing resurrection is real. We grieve with the reassurance that our loved ones are more alive now than they ever were here. We grieve with the promise that one day, we will be reunited.

Grief may visit, but hope remains.

If you’re navigating loss today, remember this: God is not offended by your pain. He can handle your questions. He can sit with you in your anger. He can hold you through your tears. His love for you is not fragile it’s everlasting. And even in the moments when you feel furthest from Him, He is closest to the brokenhearted.

Your story isn’t over. Neither is theirs. Heaven is real, reunion is certain, and until then, God walks with you every step of the journey.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for being near to the brokenhearted and for holding us in moments when grief feels heavier than we can bear. Lord, comfort every heart that mourns today. Remind us of Your promises, strengthen our faith, and help us to trust You even when we don’t understand. Wrap us in Your peace, and let the hope of Heaven calm every storm inside us. Thank You for the precious memories of our loved ones and for the gift of eternal life through Jesus Christ. Until we meet them again, carry us in Your arms.

Amen.

The “I Wills” of God

A Promise Stronger Than the Storm!

There are moments in life when the weight feels unbearable when the world seems determined to break you, silence you, or convince you that you are alone. I’ve lived through seasons like that. Seasons where the night felt endless and hope felt like a distant memory. But it was in those very moments that I learned something powerful: God’s “I Will” is stronger than life’s “You can’t.”

When I didn’t have the strength to stand, God said, “I will uphold you.”

When I couldn’t see a path forward, God said, “I will make a way.”

When my heart was shattered, God said, “I will heal you.”

When fear whispered lies, God said, “I will be with you.”

It wasn’t my confidence, my strength, or my courage that carried me through it was His promises. I discovered that the God of the Bible speaks in declarations, not suggestions. His “I Will’s” are not possibilities; they are certainties. They do not depend on my perfection but on His faithfulness.

God’s “I Will” Is a Lifeline

In Scripture, God repeatedly says, “I will.” Not “I might,” not “I’ll try,” not “If things work out.” But “I will.”

“I will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5)

“I will strengthen you and help you.” (Isaiah 41:10)

“I will restore you.” (Jeremiah 30:17)

“I will give you peace.” (John 14:27)

When I started holding onto those promises not just reading them but believing them something deep within me shifted. The battles didn’t disappear, but I stopped fighting them alone. The things that were meant to break me ended up becoming the places where God rebuilt me.

The enemy tried to use hardship to bury me, but God used it to plant me. And what grows from a seed buried in faith can never be uprooted by fear.

Looking back, I realize every tear watered my resilience, every setback strengthened my character, and every battle taught me how to trust God more deeply. I didn’t just survive I grew. I didn’t just endure I overcame. Not because I am strong, but because He said, “I will,” and He kept His word.

God’s promises spoke louder than my pain. His “I will” became the anthem that carried me from brokenness to victory.

And He is not finished. If He said, “I will,” then He will.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for every promise You have spoken over my life. Thank You for being faithful even in the moments when I was weary, uncertain, or afraid. Teach me to trust Your “I Will’s” more than I trust my own strength. Remind me that Your plans are good, Your timing is perfect, and Your Word is unshakable.

Lord, continue to guide me, restore me, and lift me into every purpose You have prepared. Let my life be a testimony of Your power, Your love, and Your faithfulness. May Your promises anchor my heart in every season.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Knowing Who You Are in Christ

One of the greatest struggles many of us face is understanding who we truly are. From the moment we are born, voices begin shaping our identity, parents, siblings, teachers, friends, spouses, even society itself. We begin to wear the labels they give us, sometimes without even realizing it. For many, those labels are affirming and life-giving. But for others and for many seasons of our lives the labels can feel heavy, hurtful, or limiting.

I know this deeply because I lived it.

For years, I walked around carrying names that were never meant for me. Not smart enough. Not good enough. Not pretty enough. Not capable. Never going to be anything. Those words carved themselves into how I saw myself and how I believed others saw me. They became the mirror I used to measure my worth.

It’s amazing how powerful other people’s words can be, how quickly they can lift us up or tear us down. Praise fills us with joy, but criticism can linger like a shadow that refuses to fade. Sometimes the harshest voices are the ones we hear in our own heads, repeating what someone else once said.

But then something changed.

It wasn’t sudden. It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t dramatic. It was gentle… persistent… loving. It was God.

I began to listen, truly listen to what He said about me. In Scripture, in prayer, in the quiet moments when my heart was tired and cracked open, God began whispering a different identity over my life.

He said I was chosen.

He said I was loved.

He said I was redeemed.

He said I was fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).

He said I had a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

He said I was His masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10).

Slowly, the old labels began to lose their grip. I started to exchange the lies I had believed for the truth God had spoken. And the more I listened, the clearer it became: Who God says I am matters far more than what anyone else believes.

I learned my worth not through the approval of people, but through the unwavering love, grace, and favor of a God who never once saw me as “not enough.” In His eyes, I was always more than enough because I was His.

And when you know Whose you are, you begin to understand who you are.

If you’ve been carrying the weight of someone else’s words, if you’ve been defining yourself by what broke you, silenced you, or belittled you I want you to know this: those labels are not your identity. God has named you, claimed you, and called you. His words over your life are the ones that matter. His truth is the one that endures.

And His truth is this: You are loved. You are valuable. You are chosen. You are enough.

A Prayer for Identity

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for seeing us fully and loving us completely. Thank You for calling us Your own and speaking life over us even when the world speaks otherwise. Lord, help us release every false label we’ve carried, every hurtful word, every limiting belief, every shadow that has tried to define us.

Teach us to hear Your voice above all others. Remind us daily of who we are in You: chosen, redeemed, cherished, and created with purpose. Restore our confidence where it has been broken, heal our hearts where they have been wounded, and strengthen our spirits to walk boldly in the identity You’ve given us.

Let Your truth take root deep within us so that we may live not out of fear or insecurity, but out of the fullness of Your love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Seeking God in a Self-Obsessed World

Lately, when I look at the world around me, I feel a heaviness I’ve never quite experienced before. Everywhere I turn, I see a level of self-obsession and self-preservation that seems to overshadow compassion. Our culture has become centered on instant gratification, quick money, quick approval, quick success. Patience is rare, empathy is dwindling, and genuine care for others feels like a fading virtue.

And perhaps what hurts the most is how little we see people seeking God anymore.

The fear of the Lord that reverent awe that grounds our lives and shapes our decisions seems almost nonexistent. Yet Scripture gives us a simple, powerful command: “Seek ye first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33). Not seek ourselves, not seek worldly validation, not seek short-term reward but seek Him. The One who knows what we need long before we do. The One who created us with purpose, with intention, with love.

When I think about how far society has drifted from this truth, my heart aches. The selfishness around us and sometimes within us can be overwhelming. The Bible teaches us to carry one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), but too often we become the source of someone else’s pain rather than the support God calls us to be. We are living through a true crisis of humanity, where so many are hurting and so few feel seen.

But even in this, I hear God whisper to my heart.

I want to be a blessing. I want to be a reason someone feels the love, kindness, and compassion that seems missing in our world. So every day, I ask God to soften my heart to make my words gentle, my actions gracious, and my presence healing. Not because I am perfect, but because I want others to see Him through me.

And the beautiful truth is this: when we seek God’s grace to love others better, we open ourselves to receiving His grace in our own lives. When we choose compassion over convenience, humility over ego, patience over frustration, something shifts. God meets us in that place. He fills the gaps we cannot fill on our own. He transforms the parts of us that the world has hardened.

In a culture obsessed with self, may we be people obsessed with God.

May we be reminders of His love, His gentleness, His kindness, and His truth.

May our lives reflect the light the world desperately needs.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

In a world that feels increasingly cold and self-focused, soften our hearts. Help us seek You first in all things. Fill us with Your compassion so we can carry the burdens of others with love and humility. Let our words, our actions, and our presence reflect who you are. Open our eyes to see those who are hurting, open our ears to hear their needs, and open our hearts to respond with grace. Transform us so that others may see You in us. Use our lives as a light in a dark world.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

The Power Within Us

Walking in His mighty strength

There are moments in life when we feel powerless, when our strength seems small and our faith feels fragile. Yet, even in those moments, God’s Word reminds us of a truth that can reignite our spirit and restore our confidence in Him.

Ephesians 1:19 (KJV) declares:

“And what is the exceeding greatness of His power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of His mighty power.”

This verse is a divine reminder that the same power that raised Christ from the dead is the very power that lives within us as believers. It’s not our own might that carries us through the storms, but His. When we walk by faith, we tap into that supernatural strength that defies human limitation.

I can recall a time when I felt completely worn out, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. My prayers felt weak, my hope felt distant, and I questioned whether I had anything left to give. But it was in that still, quiet place that God whispered to my heart: “My power is made perfect in weakness.” Suddenly, I realized it was never about my ability to hold on it was about His power holding me.

Every trial, every test, and every tear becomes an opportunity for His strength to shine through us. When we surrender our will and rest in His promises, we no longer walk in defeat, but in divine empowerment. The same Spirit that moved mountains and opened seas is the same Spirit that lives in you.

So today, let’s give glory and honor to the Most High not just for what He’s done, but for who He is. He is our strength when we are weak, our hope when life feels uncertain, and our peace in the midst of chaos. His power knows no end, and His love never fails.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with grateful hearts, giving all glory and honor to Your holy name. Thank You for the mighty power that works within us, the same power that raised Jesus from the grave. Lord, strengthen our faith and remind us daily that we are never alone, for You are our refuge and strength. Fill us with Your Spirit, guide our steps, and let our lives reflect Your glory. May we walk boldly in Your purpose, trusting fully in Your promises.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Honoring God in Everything We Do

After this I heard what sounded like the roar of a great multitude in heaven shouting: ‘Hallelujah! Salvation and glory and power belong to our God.’” – Revelation 19:1 (NIV)

There is a sound in Heaven — a mighty roar of praise that never ceases. It is the sound of honor, the sound of worship, the sound of complete surrender to the One who reigns forever. Revelation 19:1 gives us a glimpse of that moment: the hosts of Heaven crying out in unison, proclaiming the greatness and majesty of our God.

When we read this, it reminds us that honoring God is not limited to the songs we sing on Sunday mornings or the prayers we whisper in quiet moments. It’s a lifestyle. It’s how we live, speak, work, and love. It’s reflected in every choice we make when no one is watching and when the world is paying attention.

To honor God in everything we do means to give Him glory in the ordinary and the extraordinary. It’s in the way we treat others with grace. It’s in the patience we show when life tests us. It’s in the diligence with which we work, knowing that our efforts are an offering to Him.

There was a time in my life when I thought honoring God meant doing “big things” for Him: serving in visible ways, speaking on platforms, or accomplishing something notable. But God gently reminded me that He values faithfulness more than fame. Honoring Him begins in the quiet moments choosing kindness over frustration, integrity over convenience, prayer over worry.

When we live with this heart posture, our lives become a reflection of Heaven’s song: “Hallelujah! Salvation and glory and power belong to our God.”

Let every word we speak, every task we take on, and every decision we make become a hallelujah that rises up to Him. The world may not always notice, but Heaven does.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the reminder that all glory, honor, and power belong to You alone. Teach us to live each day in a way that reflects Your goodness and grace. Help us to honor You not just with our words, but through our actions, attitudes, and hearts. May our lives echo the praise of Heaven, declaring Your greatness in all we do.

We give You all the glory for every breath, every blessing, and every moment belongs to You.

In Jesus’ Name,
Amen

Gratitude in the Midst of Tragedy

This week, I was once again reminded of God’s incredible grace not just over my life, but over the lives of those I love. The enemy came against us, testing our faith and our peace. Yet even in the middle of pain, fear, and helplessness, we knew exactly who was in control.

The Bible reminds us in Isaiah 54:17, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper.” We stood firmly on that promise. Tragedy tried to take center stage, but God’s grace refused to leave the scene. His presence was undeniable a calm in the chaos, a light in the darkness, a shield when the storm raged.

What we went through was terrifying. We saw how quickly things could have gone wrong, how easily loss and heartbreak could have become our reality. But God… God stepped in. The outcome that could have devastated us became a testimony that now fuels our faith. What the enemy meant for harm, God turned into victory.

Now we have what I like to call a “God did it” testimony.

Because He truly did.

Although the aftermath lingers, the recovery slow, the emotions still raw, gratitude fills our hearts. Every day, we choose to thank God for His protection, His mercy, and His unshakable hand on our lives. Gratitude is our weapon now. Praise is our declaration.

No matter what the enemy tries to throw at us, we know without a shadow of doubt that our God is bigger. He is the same God who parted the Red Sea for Moses, who brought down giants for David, and who shut the mouths of lions for Daniel. That same God is still working miracles today in our lives, in our homes, in our hearts.

So, even in the midst of tragedy, we give thanks. Because gratitude is not just what we offer after the victory it’s what carries us through the battle.

A Prayer of Gratitude and Strength

Heavenly Father,

We come before You today with hearts full of gratitude. Even in our pain, we recognize Your presence. Even in our fear, we feel Your peace. Lord, thank You for covering us with Your grace when the enemy tried to destroy us. Thank You for being our refuge and our strength, our ever-present help in times of trouble.

We may still be healing, but we are not defeated. We may still be waiting for full restoration, but we stand in victory because You are faithful. Help us, Lord, to always see Your hand at work, even when the road is hard and the nights feel long. Teach us to remain thankful in every season, trusting that You are working all things together for our good.

We give You all the glory, all the honor, and all the praise because, truly, God did it.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen

When God’s Favor Is on Your Life

There’s something truly powerful about the favor of God. When His favor rests upon your life, even the impossible becomes possible. Doors you never thought would open suddenly swing wide. Mountains move, hearts soften, and what once seemed out of reach starts to fall perfectly into place. God’s favor has a way of turning every situation, no matter how bleak into a testimony of victory.

I can say this with confidence because I’ve lived it. Looking back over my life and even now, I see God’s favor written all over my story. From healing that doctors couldn’t explain, to unexpected job opportunities, financial breakthroughs, and protection over my children.  God’s hand has been there every step of the way. His favor has carried me through valleys and set me on mountaintops I never imagined standing upon.

There were times I didn’t know how I was going to make it. Times when I felt hopeless, when the weight of the world seemed too heavy to bear. Yet somehow, things shifted. Out of nowhere, blessings appeared, situations turned around, and peace flooded my heart. That’s when I knew it was nothing but God’s favor working on my behalf.

The Bible reminds us in Psalm 5:12 (NIV),

“Surely, Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.”

God’s favor isn’t just a momentary blessing it’s a covering. It surrounds us, protects us, and propels us toward His divine purpose. When you walk in His favor, you can rest assured that even when life feels uncertain, God is already working behind the scenes for your good.

And here’s the beautiful truth: God’s favor is not earned; it’s given. It’s His grace in action unmerited, undeserved, yet freely poured out on His children. All He asks is that we trust Him, remain faithful, and keep our hearts aligned with His will.

So, if you’re in a season where things seem unclear, hold on. Don’t lose hope. God’s favor is still at work even when you can’t see it. He’s positioning you for something greater than you could ever imagine.

A Prayer for God’s Favor

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for Your endless favor over my life. Even when I don’t see it, I know You are working all things together for my good. Lord, help me to walk boldly in the confidence that Your hand is upon me. Teach me to recognize Your blessings, to remain grateful in all circumstances, and to trust Your timing.

Surround me, my family, and everyone reading this with Your divine favor like a shield. Open doors that no man can shut, turn challenges into opportunities, and let Your glory be revealed through every victory. May my life always reflect Your goodness and grace.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen

A Season of Gratitude

Gathering at the Table

As we step into the beautiful month of November, our hearts naturally begin to turn toward gratitude. It’s that special time of year when families and friends come together, gather around the table, and celebrate the countless blessings that God has poured into our lives.

Thanksgiving is more than just a holiday. It’s a moment of reflection, a sacred pause to recognize the hand of God in every season. It’s an opportunity to remember not only the big miracles that took our breath away, but also the quiet moments where God’s presence carried us through. Sometimes His greatest blessings come in the smallest, most ordinary ways a kind word, a door opened, peace in the middle of chaos, or strength when we thought we had none left.

When we gather at the table, something truly holy happens. It’s not just about the food we share, but the fellowship we experience. The table is where laughter echoes, stories unfold, and hearts connect. It’s where generations come together to remember what matters most.

Even Jesus valued the table. Before His crucifixion, He sat with His disciples and broke bread with them, saying, “Do this in remembrance of me.” (Luke 22:19). What a powerful reminder that gathering together is sacred. It’s a reflection of God’s love, unity, and grace. Jesus knew that the table wasn’t just a place for eating. It was a place for communion, reflection, and gratitude.

This year, I have so much to be thankful for — not just the big, visible blessings, but all the subtle ways God has shown up for me. The moments of peace, the unexpected provisions, the comfort in times of uncertainty are all reminders that He is faithful, always.

But let’s not wait for a holiday to celebrate God’s goodness. Let thankfulness become a way of life. Gather often. Share a meal. Tell your stories. Laugh, pray, and rejoice in the goodness of the Lord. Every gathering can be a moment of worship when we pause to remember who He is and what He’s done.

As we enter this Thanksgiving season, may our hearts overflow with gratitude not because life is perfect, but because God is present in every detail of it.

A Thanksgiving Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with hearts full of gratitude. Thank You for the gift of family, friends, and the blessing of gathering at the table. Thank You for Your provision, Your faithfulness, and the countless ways You show up in our lives, seen and unseen.

As we share our meals and our memories this season, help us to see You in every smile, every laugh, and every story told. Teach us to live with thankful hearts each day, not just on Thanksgiving. May our tables be filled with love, our homes with peace, and our lives with joy that comes from You alone.

In Jesus’ name we pray,
Amen

The Importance of Grace When Dealing with Hurt and Unmet Expectations

Life has a way of testing our patience, our faith, and our character. There are times when people will disappoint us sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. Expectations go unmet, words are said that can’t be taken back, and actions can leave deep wounds. In those moments, it’s easy to let frustration, anger, or resentment take control. But as I continue to grow in my walk with God, I’m learning more and more about the importance of grace.

Grace is not always easy to give, especially when the hurt runs deep. It’s hard to show grace to people who are selfish, set in their ways, entitled, or just plain ungrateful. Sometimes it feels unfair to extend kindness when all you’ve received is disrespect or disappointment. I’ve been there, ready to respond out of hurt, ready to prove a point, ready to walk away without a second thought. But each time I stop and pray, God reminds me: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)

That scripture hits differently when you’re the one feeling weak, when you’re fighting to respond with love instead of anger. The truth is, we’re all imperfect. We all fall short, make mistakes, and fail to meet the expectations of others. Yet, God continues to give us grace over and over again. He doesn’t love us less when we mess up. He doesn’t hold grudges or throw our failures in our faces. Instead, He forgives us and teaches us through His unconditional love.

So, if God gives me grace freely, who am I to withhold it from others? That doesn’t mean allowing people to mistreat you or staying in toxic situations it means learning to respond with wisdom, not wrath. It means pausing, breathing, and asking God to help you see the situation through His eyes.

There are times when I have to literally stop myself and ask, “Is this moment worth me stepping out of character? Or should I walk away and protect my peace?” I’ll be honest sometimes I don’t get it right. But I’m trying. I’m learning that walking in grace doesn’t make you weak; it makes you strong enough to choose peace over pride. It takes maturity and faith to say, “God, I release this. Handle it for me.”

When you choose grace, you choose growth. You choose to reflect God’s love even in the most difficult moments. And that’s how true healing begins by allowing grace to do what anger never can.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your endless grace and mercy. Thank You for loving me even when I fall short. Lord, help me to extend that same grace to others, even when it’s hard. Teach me to pause before I react, to lean on Your guidance, and to walk in peace. Give me strength to choose grace over anger, forgiveness over bitterness, and wisdom over pride. Let my actions reflect Your heart, and may Your grace continue to shape me into who You’ve called me to be.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

God Can Heal Our Land

There’s no denying the heaviness in the air. Turn on the news, scroll through social media, or simply look around, and you can feel it fear, hate, division, and confusion. Our world feels torn apart, and our nation seems to be struggling to find its footing. But as children of God, we must remember that none of this is new to Him. He is not surprised by our brokenness, and He is not absent in our chaos.

The Bible tells us in 2 Chronicles 7:14 (KJV): “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”

Those words are not just ancient promises they are alive and relevant today. God has healed nations before. He delivered His people from bondage, from oppression, from fear. He split seas, moved mountains, and restored what was lost. And He can do it again.

Right now, we are witnessing hearts growing cold and compassion being replaced with judgment. But even in this darkness, there is hope. There is still a remnant of believers who choose to love, forgive, and trust God’s sovereignty. The same God who heard the cries of His people in Egypt still hears our prayers today.

If we truly want change not just in our homes but in our country, we must return to God. We must lay down pride, prejudice, and political division and pick up prayer, faith, and unity. Healing will not come from a government, a movement, or a person it will come from God. When we align our hearts with His will, He can break every barrier, soften hardened hearts, and bring people together in ways we could never imagine.

This is a time to pray without ceasing. To intercede for our leaders, our communities, our children, and our nation. It’s a time to seek God’s face and trust that even when we don’t understand what He’s doing, His plan is still perfect.

So, let us hold on to hope. Let us believe in the power of a turnaround because God has never failed, and He never will.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We come before You today with heavy hearts but hopeful spirits. Our nation is hurting, divided, and in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You said that if Your people would humble themselves and pray, You would heal their land. So, we stand on that promise today. Heal our hearts, Lord. Remove the spirit of fear, hatred, and confusion, and replace it with Your peace, love, and unity.

Touch the hearts of leaders, heal the wounds of the broken, and remind us that we are all Your children. Let Your will be done  not only in our lives but in our country. We trust You to bring restoration, revival, and reconciliation.

In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen