Letting Go

Trusting God When It’s Time to Walk Away

 “I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread.” – Psalm 37:25

There comes a moment in life when God whispers, “It’s time to let go.” Sometimes, that whisper feels like a thunderstorm in your heart because letting go isn’t easy. Whether it’s a job, a friendship, or a relationship, walking away from something familiar can feel like losing a part of yourself. But I’ve learned that sometimes, walking away is not a sign of weakness it’s an act of faith.

When you know your worth, you begin to realize that staying in places where you are not valued doesn’t honor the God who created you. You were made in His image fearfully and wonderfully made and that means you deserve to be in spaces that recognize your light.

Still, walking away should never be done out of anger or bitterness. It should come from a place of prayer, peace, and discernment. Before you take that step, seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to lead your path and to prepare what’s next. He is not a God of confusion He is a God of clarity, peace, and provision.

If you’re in a job where you’re overlooked and undervalued, don’t let fear of the unknown hold you hostage. Remember, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) The same God who blessed you with that position can open another door  one that honors both your purpose and your peace. His Word reminds us that the righteous will never be forsaken or beg for bread. He will sustain you, provide for you, and bless the work of your hands.

If you’re in a relationship or friendship where love and respect are one-sided, don’t shrink yourself to fit someone else’s comfort. You are enough. You do not need to beg for affection, loyalty, or kindness. God’s love for you is unconditional and when you walk in that truth, you no longer settle for less than what you deserve.

I’m learning this personally. I no longer make excuses when I feel unvalued. I don’t chase validation or acceptance. I stand firm in knowing who I am and Whose I am. My worth doesn’t come from people it comes from God. And because of that, I can let go without losing myself.

So, if you feel God tugging on your heart to move on, trust Him. Don’t let fear keep you stuck in what He’s trying to free you from. Sometimes, walking away is the first step toward walking into greater.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me of my worth and value in You. Give me the strength to let go of anything or anyone that no longer serves my purpose. Help me to walk away in peace, not in anger, and to trust that You are leading me into better. Provide for me, Lord, and order my steps toward the blessings You’ve already prepared. I trust You to open new doors and to guide me with wisdom and discernment.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen

The Importance of Family

Family —  it’s one of the greatest gifts God has given us, but also one of the hardest to maintain. It doesn’t always look like we imagined. Sometimes family is biological, sometimes it’s chosen, and sometimes it’s a beautiful blend of both. But no matter how it’s formed, love is the glue that holds family together.

For me, I’ve been fortunate to create family with people from all walks of life. Some have stayed for a season, others for a lifetime. Each connection taught me something valuable about love, loyalty, and forgiveness. I’ve learned that family isn’t defined by blood it’s defined by bond. It’s about who shows up when the world turns cold, who covers you in prayer when life gets heavy, and who celebrates you even when you can’t see your own worth.

The Bible reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:7 that “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Real family, the kind rooted in God’s love endures. It forgives. It gives grace when we least deserve it. But it also recognizes when to step back and protect peace. Family relationships can be complicated; they take work, humility, and a willingness to grow. Sometimes you’ll have to love from a distance, and that’s okay. Distance doesn’t erase love it just creates space for healing.

Over time, I’ve learned the beauty of being surrounded by people who love, support, uplift, and show up for me. That is family. It’s not always perfect, but it’s real. It’s the reflection of God’s heart a place where you can be seen, heard, and embraced, flaws and all.

If you’ve been blessed with that kind of family, nurture it. Protect it. Thank God for it daily. And if you’re still praying for it, know that He is faithful. God places people in our lives for purpose some for a lifetime, others for a lesson but all to shape us into who He created us to be.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of family both born and chosen. Thank You for the people who love us, support us, and stand by us through every season. Lord, teach us to love with patience, to forgive with grace, and to nurture the relationships You’ve entrusted to us. Help us to be the kind of family that reflects Your heart compassionate, understanding, and steadfast. Heal the broken bonds and bring peace where there has been pain. May our homes and hearts always be filled with Your love.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Guard Your Heart from Jealousy and Envy

Jealousy and envy are quiet destroyers. They sneak into our hearts disguised as comparison, insecurity, or frustration, but their goal is always the same to rob us of peace, gratitude, and joy. What’s even more dangerous is how easily they can delay, or even remove, the blessings God has for us.

I’ve experienced this firsthand. I’ve lost friendships not because I bragged or flaunted what I had, but simply because I wanted better for my life. I prayed for everything I have — every blessing, every challenge, every open door — and I remain grateful, even for the hard parts. But what hurt the most wasn’t the loss of things. It was realizing that some people I thought would celebrate with me, couldn’t. Instead of clapping when God blessed me, they made hurtful remarks or distanced themselves.

At first, it stung. But then God showed me something powerful: sometimes He allows certain reactions to reveal hearts that cannot go with you to the next level. He separates you not to punish you, but to protect your peace and preserve your purpose.

The Bible says in James 3:16 (NIV), “For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.”

That verse hit me hard. Envy doesn’t just poison relationships it invites confusion and chaos into our lives. It blinds us to our own blessings and makes us resent the very people we’re supposed to love.

We have to learn to rejoice when others win. Your friend’s success doesn’t threaten yours — it confirms that God is still in the blessing business. The same way you want to be celebrated, so do others. We each have different gifts, different seasons, and different stories. What’s for someone else will never fit you, and what’s meant for you will never miss you.

God made us all unique in His image. You are not better or worse — you are chosen, handcrafted, and purposed by Him. When you learn to be content and genuinely happy for others, you make room for God to bless you, too. Gratitude multiplies what envy tries to destroy. Let’s choose gratitude over envy, love over comparison, and celebration over competition.

A Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me that my worth and blessings come from You alone. Lord, search my heart and remove any trace of jealousy, envy, or comparison. Teach me to celebrate others with pure joy, knowing that Your timing and plan for my life are perfect.

Help me to trust You in my waiting, to stay grateful in my growing, and to love others freely as You love me. I release every hurt, every disappointment, and every relationship that cannot walk with me into the next season.

May my heart stay humble, my spirit stay grateful, and my words always bring life.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Be Slow to Speak

The Power of a Controlled Tongue

As an overthinker, words have always carried a deep weight for me. When someone speaks, their words don’t just pass through my ears, they linger. I replay them, analyze them, and sometimes, they echo longer than they should. And I’ve learned through experience that words spoken in anger can pierce deeper than any physical wound. No matter how sincere the apology, the sting of those words often remains.

I wasn’t always mindful of my mouth or my emotions. There were seasons in my life when I was quick to respond, quick to defend, quick to lash out and it often left me feeling convicted afterward. I had to learn that just because I could say something didn’t mean I should. The Holy Spirit began to teach me that silence isn’t weakness; it’s wisdom.

The tongue, as Scripture reminds us, is “sharper than any two-edged sword.” Once spoken, words can’t be unsaid. They have the power to build or destroy, to heal or to wound. The phrase “What’s spoken in anger first lived in the heart” is such a sobering reminder. If bitterness, pride, or hurt is what’s in our hearts, it will eventually spill out through our mouths.

That’s why it’s so important to pause before speaking, to breathe, pray, and let God filter our emotions before our words ever leave our lips. Every time we choose silence over reaction, we are giving the Holy Spirit room to work. Every time we choose love over offense, we are reflecting Christ.

So today, let’s make it our intention to speak life. To be slow to speak, quick to listen, and even quicker to forgive. Because our words carry weight and they reveal what truly lives in our hearts.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me of the power that lies in my words. Help me to guard my tongue and control my emotions. When anger rises, calm my spirit. When frustration speaks, silence me until Your peace takes over. Create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit within me. Let my words always reflect Your love, grace, and truth.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Life Can Change in the Blink of an Eye

One of the most sobering realities about life is how quickly it can change. One phone call, one diagnosis, one accident, one unexpected moment and everything you thought was certain can be shaken. The truth is, tomorrow isn’t promised. James 4:14 reminds us, “What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”

That verse isn’t meant to scare us, but to ground us in the truth: life is fragile. And because it is fragile, we should live it with gratitude, intentionality, and purpose.

Too often, we delay joy. We say things like, “One day I’ll travel,” “One day I’ll wear that dress,” “One day I’ll try something new.” But what if that “one day” never comes? What if the opportunity you’re waiting for never arrives because life took a turn you didn’t see coming?

I’ve learned personally that change doesn’t knock on the door before entering — it comes suddenly. And in those moments, I’m reminded that every sunrise is a gift, every laugh with loved ones is a blessing, and every opportunity to show love is an investment in eternity.

God never promised us that life would remain the same. In fact, Ecclesiastes 3 tells us there is a season for everything, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. Seasons shift, and the only constant we have is Christ. That’s why it’s so important to live fully in Him.

Don’t allow fear, insecurity, or even the opinions of others to rob you of living the life God entrusted to you. Wear that dress. Take that trip. Step out in faith toward your calling. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Laugh often. And above all, seek God daily because in Him is the abundant life that doesn’t fade when circumstances change.

Life can change in a blink of an eye, but the good news is, so can you. You can decide today to stop postponing joy, to stop holding back, and to truly live in the freedom and fullness Christ has already given you.

A Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of life and the reminder that each day is precious. Forgive me for the times I’ve taken life for granted or waited too long to embrace the blessings You’ve placed before me. Lord, teach me to live with joy, courage, and gratitude. Help me to walk boldly in the purpose You’ve called me to and to cherish the people and opportunities You’ve placed in my path. When life changes suddenly, remind me that You are my unshakable foundation.

In Jesus’ name,Amen

When Old Wounds Follow Us

Healing Before Loving Again

Relationship trauma leaves marks that don’t just fade with time. They sit deep in our hearts, shaping the way we see love, trust, and connection. I’ve learned through my own experiences that walking into a new relationship while still unhealed is like carrying a heavy suitcase everywhere you go. Eventually, it weighs down not only you, but the person walking beside you.

When you’ve been betrayed, lied to, abandoned, or overlooked, your natural instinct is to protect yourself. The problem is, if healing hasn’t happened, protection can look like walls, silence, suspicion, or distance. Suddenly, the one person who came to love you feels like they’re paying the price for the ones who hurt you.

Trust becomes shaky. Instead of seeing your new partner for who they are, you start searching for red flags, waiting for the same patterns to repeat.

Communication gets cloudy because fear whispers, “Don’t say too much. Don’t be too vulnerable. Don’t let them hurt you.” Intimacy feels unsafe because being open means exposing the very wounds you’ve worked so hard to cover.

And showing up fully becomes almost impossible because part of you is still stuck in the past, carrying memories and pain that were never meant to define your future.

The Bible reminds us in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” God never intended for us to drag our old baggage into new seasons. His desire is for us to release it, surrender it, and allow Him to heal what was broken so that love can flourish the way He designed it to.

Healing doesn’t happen overnight, but it does happen when we invite God into the deepest parts of our pain. Counseling, prayer, self-reflection, and patience with ourselves are all tools God uses to restore what was shattered. And when we commit to that healing, we don’t just free ourselves, we give our future relationships a chance to thrive without being choked by the past.

Friend, don’t let old wounds rob you of new joy. Your heart deserves wholeness. Your partner deserves the best version of you, not the broken version that past trauma left behind. And most importantly, God wants to use your healing as a testimony that His love is greater than any heartbreak you’ve endured.

Prayer

Father, I come before You with an open heart. You see the wounds I’ve carried and the pain that still lingers from past relationships. Lord, I surrender my brokenness to You. Heal the places that are still tender, release me from the weight of old baggage, and help me to walk in the freedom You’ve promised. Teach me to trust again, to love without fear, and to show up fully for the people You’ve placed in my life. May every relationship I enter reflect Your love, Your grace, and Your healing power.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Renewed Mind, Renewed Life

One of the greatest gifts God has given us is the ability to grow, change, and transform. Romans 12:2 reminds us: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”

We are not meant to settle in life. Just as we strive for better jobs, bigger dreams, and even new homes, God also calls us to strive for renewal in our hearts and minds. Staying stuck in old habits, routines, or ways of thinking can feel safe, but safety doesn’t always mean growth. There’s nothing wrong with traditions or the old ways of doing things, but when we cling to them out of stubbornness, fear, or control, we rob ourselves of the life God is trying to lead us into.

I’ve learned this lesson personally. I’m not the same person I was ten years ago honestly; I’m not even the same person I was two years ago. Every season of my life has pushed me to evolve mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I’ve discovered that a renewed mind means choosing to release the old patterns that no longer serve me and being brave enough to embrace what God has in store next.

Life is meant to be lived with open hands and an open heart. When we try new things whether it’s experiencing a new culture, tasting a different cuisine, or listening to unfamiliar music we give ourselves permission to see the world in fresh ways. Being open-minded does not diminish who we are; it expands us. It creates room for compassion, grace, and understanding.

I used to think life had to be “my way,” but when I opened myself up to seeing things through another perspective, I realized how much beauty and growth I had been missing. It’s in those moments of openness that I’ve become more accepting, more loving, and more like the person God created me to be.

A renewed mind is not about abandoning who you are, t’s about allowing God to refine you into who you are becoming. And that journey never ends.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank you for the gift of renewal and transformation. Help me to release old habits, patterns, and ways of thinking that no longer align with Your will for my life. Give me the courage to be open, the wisdom to discern, and the grace to embrace growth in every area of my life. May my mind be renewed daily so that I may walk in the fullness of who You created me to be. Teach me to live with compassion, openness, and love, reflecting Your heart in all that I do.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Being Chosen Without Begging

There comes a moment in life when you finally realize that love, respect, and true connection cannot be forced. For years, I found myself fighting battles I was never meant to fight, holding on to people who were already letting go, begging for a place in lives where I was never truly chosen. I fought for relationships, friendships, and even family ties, only to be left disappointed, lied to, and deeply hurt.

Not once did anyone fight for me to stay. Not once did I feel someone chase after me with the same passion, loyalty, or determination I poured into them. That realization was heavy, but it also became the turning point of my healing.

The truth is, when God chooses you, you never have to beg. He never makes you prove your worthiness. He doesn’t put conditions on His love. His Word reminds us in John 15:16, “You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit, fruit that will last.” If the creator of heaven and earth has already chosen me, why should I lower myself to beg for the attention, love, or validation of people who cannot even see my value?

Being chosen by God means I am already seen, already loved, and already enough. It frees me from chasing people who were never meant to walk with me into the next season. It releases me from the exhausting cycle of fighting battles that only leave scars.

Sometimes God allows rejection to be the redirection we need. What felt like loss was actually His protection. Those who walked away were never equipped to carry me where God is taking me. And though I grieved the absence of those I once fought for, I now find peace knowing that the right people the ones He ordains will never need me to beg for a seat in their lives. They will see me, value me, and choose me willingly, just as God does.

My prayer today is that I no longer waste my strength fighting in vain, but instead, I rest in the assurance that being chosen by God is enough.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me that I am already chosen and loved by You. Forgive me for the times I begged for what was never meant for me and fought for people who were not meant to stay. Teach me to trust in Your perfect will and to embrace the relationships that You have ordained for my life. Help me walk in confidence, knowing my worth is rooted in You alone. Surround me with people who reflect Your love, and give me the wisdom to release those who cannot walk with me.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Dealing with Life’s Trials and Tribulations

Life has a way of knocking us down when we least expect it. Sickness, loss of income, broken relationships, disappointments, and countless other struggles can leave us feeling abandoned, overwhelmed, and even questioning if God has forgotten us. In those dark moments, it’s easy to believe the lie that we are walking alone.

But the truth is God has never left. He has promised us in His Word, “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). Even in our most painful trials, His presence is near.

When I think about trials, I often reflect on Job. He lost everything, his wealth, his health, and even the support of those closest to him. Yet despite all of it, Job clung to his faith. He said, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him” (Job 13:15). What a powerful declaration! Job teaches us that even when we don’t understand the “why,” we can trust the “who.”

David, too, inspires us in the face of trials. When he stood before Goliath, he wasn’t armed with the best weapons or the strongest army. He was armed with faith. While others doubted, David boldly declared that the battle belonged to the Lord (1 Samuel 17:47). His faith in God gave him the courage to face what seemed impossible.

The same God who walked with Job and gave David victory is the same God walking with you today. The trial you’re facing may feel like the end, but in God’s hands, it can become the beginning of something new. Sometimes our trials are not meant to destroy us but to strengthen us, draw us closer to God, and show us His power in ways we would have never known otherwise.

If you’re weary right now, take heart. God has not forsaken you. He is still in control, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust Him through the storm, because storms do not last forever but God’s love does.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding us that even in our darkest trials, You are near. Help us to stand firm in faith like Job and to face our giants like David, knowing that the battle belongs to You. Strengthen our hearts when we are weary, and remind us daily of Your unfailing love and promises. Lord, when life feels overwhelming, let us rest in the truth that You will never leave nor forsake us. We trust You to turn our trials into testimonies.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

The Power of Submissive Love

The word submission often carries a heavy, misunderstood weight. In today’s culture, it is sometimes painted as weakness, control, or loss of identity. But when we look at it through God’s design, submission is not about oppression it is about love, trust, and safety.

True submission says: “I trust you, and I know I am safe with you.” It is not about being silenced or diminished. It is about being so covered in love that vulnerability is not scary, because safety is guaranteed.

Ephesians 5:25 reminds husbands to “love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” That is sacrificial love. A love that protects, nourishes, and values. When a spouse is submitted to God first, their actions reflect His heart. Their words bring life, not destruction. Their leadership builds trust, not fear.

But here’s the truth: submission cannot exist in relationships where there is deceit, control, manipulation, or abuse. Submission does not thrive in chaos it thrives in the soil of God’s love. A spouse should be a covering, a safe place, and a reflection of Christ’s sacrifice. It is never about power, but about partnership.

For me personally, safety has always been my deepest need. Safety to be myself without fear. Safety to rest in love without questioning intentions. Safety that comes from knowing my worth in God and being treated as the precious gift He created me to be. When safety is present, submission is not heavy it is freeing.

Submission in love is powerful because it mirrors the beauty of God’s design. Just as we, His children, submit to Him out of love and trust, so too can submission in marriage become a living testimony of God’s goodness.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for teaching us that submission, when rooted in Your love, is not weakness but strength. Help us to walk in relationships that honor You where love, trust, and safety flow from hearts submitted first to You. For every person struggling with broken trust or fear, wrap them in Your covering and remind them of their worth. Lord, create marriages that reflect Your sacrificial love, and give us the courage to submit to You daily, knowing You are our ultimate source of safety.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Living a Life Without Regrets

So many of us spend years trying to live up to other people’s expectations. We shrink back to make others comfortable. We silence our voice so we won’t rock the boat. We carry guilt for wanting more, as if desiring a full and purposeful life makes us ungrateful. But God never created us to live bound by regrets, fear, or the weight of other people’s opinions. He created us to live free, authentic, and unapologetic in Him.

Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

God’s plans are intentional and personal. They are not dependent on anyone else’s approval. Living authentically means saying “yes” to God’s will and “no” to anything that steals your peace, dims your light, or makes you feel unworthy of the abundant life Jesus promised.

I’ve learned that when I choose authenticity, I feel lighter. I no longer carry the burden of pretending. When I choose to be unapologetically me, I discover a joy that cannot be stolen. And when I trust my instincts, guided by the Holy Spirit, I walk confidently in the direction God is calling me even if others don’t understand.

Sisters, your peace is sacred. Your light is powerful. And your God-given right is to live a fulfilled life. Do not let pressure, guilt, or comparison strip you of the blessing of walking boldly in your purpose.

A Prayer for Living Authentically

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me that Your plans for my life are good and full of hope. Help me to live without regrets, trusting that every step I take with You is leading me into freedom and purpose. Teach me to honor my peace, protect my joy, and walk in authenticity without apology. May I never shrink back to please others, but instead shine brightly with the light You’ve placed within me. Lord, give me courage to pursue the abundant life You promised, and may my life always reflect Your glory.In Jesus’ name, Amen.

The Importance of Feeling Safe in Every Area of Your Life

Safety isn’t just about locking our doors at night or avoiding physical harm it’s deeper than that. True safety extends to our mind, emotions, body, and spirit. When one of these areas is neglected, we live in constant unrest, always bracing for the next blow, instead of living in the peace God designed for us.

For years, I didn’t realize how unsafe I felt. Not necessarily unsafe in my surroundings, but unsafe within myself. I lived with mental battles that whispered lies of fear and unworthiness. Emotionally, I felt vulnerable, waiting for people to abandon me or confirm my insecurities. Spiritually, I often wondered if I was “enough” for God or if He would eventually grow weary of me. And physically, while I tried to hold myself together, the stress of it all would show up in headaches, fatigue, and anxiety.

But God, in His mercy, began to show me that safety is His promise to us. His Word says:

“The Lord is my light and my salvation whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1)

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” (Isaiah 26:3)

“The Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.” (2 Thessalonians 3:3)

God wants us to walk through life with an assurance that He is our covering. That means when our thoughts spiral, His truth can anchor us. When emotions run wild, His love steadies us. When our bodies feel weak, His strength carries us. And when the enemy tries to shake our spirit, God reminds us that nothing can separate us from His love (Romans 8:38-39).

Safety doesn’t mean we won’t face challenges. It means that in the storm, we are held. It means that even when people disappoint us or life shakes us, our foundation in Christ cannot be moved.

Friend, I want to encourage you today: begin to invite God into every part of your life where you feel unsafe. Ask Him to be your mental shield, your emotional guardrail, your physical protector, and your spiritual anchor. Safety isn’t found in people, possessions, or even in control it’s found in His presence.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, I thank You for being my refuge and my fortress. Lord, I admit there are times when I don’t feel safe—when fear, doubt, and worry creep into my mind, emotions, and spirit. Today, I choose to surrender those unsafe places to You. Cover me with Your peace, surround me with Your protection, and fill me with Your truth. Remind me daily that You are my strong tower and my safe place. Help me to walk in the confidence that I am held, loved, and secure in You.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Surviving a Narcissistic Relationship

From Brokenness to Restoration

I never thought I would find myself in the middle of a narcissistic relationship. I was so love bombed that I couldn’t see the red flags. I didn’t pause to seek God’s will because the idea of a “happily ever after” felt so enticing. Deep down, I feared that if I walked away, I would never find love again.

At first, it was intoxicating, everything seemed perfect. But then the shift happened. Suddenly, the very things that made me unique, the very qualities that were once celebrated, became a problem. I wasn’t enough. I was flawed. The silent treatments came. The withholding of affection became normal. The intimate things I had shared in confidence were later used as weapons against me.

I was miserable mentally, emotionally, and physically. I felt like I was fading away. The only thing that kept me from completely breaking was prayer. Even when I didn’t have the strength to fully believe, I kept the faith that God was still near.

And He was.

In His infinite grace, God pulled me out of that situation. He reminded me of His love when I felt unworthy. He restored my identity when I couldn’t even recognize myself in the mirror. I still struggle at times. I still get triggered. But instead of living in defeat, I live in gratitude. God has shown me His restoration power, and He is helping me reclaim myself in Him and rediscover who He made me to be.

The Bible says in Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” I am living proof of this. Even in my brokenness, God never left me. He turned my pain into purpose, and my suffering into strength.

Today, I no longer see that relationship as my destruction I see it as my classroom. It was painful, but it taught me to fully depend on God, to seek His will above my own desires, and to trust that His plan for my life is always greater than anything I could imagine.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for being my refuge in times of pain. Thank You for carrying me when I was too weak to stand. Lord, I pray for anyone who is in or recovering from a toxic relationship wrap them in Your peace and remind them that they are loved, chosen, and never alone. Heal the wounds left behind, restore their confidence, and remind them of the beautiful identity they have in You. Help us to walk boldly in freedom, not bound by fear or insecurity, but rooted in Your truth. Thank You for turning ashes into beauty and brokenness into testimony.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

When the Son Rises in the Middle of Our Waiting

I snapped this picture one morning while waiting at a red light. At first glance, it just looks like an ordinary sunrise. But as I stared at it, God began to speak to me.

The light was so bright, it almost overshadowed everything else in the scene, the cars, the buildings, even the traffic lights. It reminded me that no matter what stops us in life, God’s light cannot be contained. The red lights might signal wait, but the sun still rises. Isn’t that a picture of life?

So often, we find ourselves stuck at the intersections of life, waiting for doors to open, for healing to come, for prayers to be answered. And while we’re waiting, it can feel frustrating and even discouraging. But in the middle of the wait, God’s presence shines. His glory is not bound by our stoplights or our delays.

The Bible reminds us: “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). Every sunrise is proof that God is faithful. No matter how dark yesterday was, He gives us a new beginning today.

As I looked at this sunrise breaking through the horizon, I felt God whisper, “I am with you in the waiting.” The waiting season is not wasted. It’s where God is strengthening us, shaping us, and preparing us for what’s ahead.

If you’re at a red light moment in your life, don’t lose hope. Look up. The Son is still shining. His light is greater than the delays, and His timing is perfect.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the reminder that Your light shines even in the pauses of life. Help me to trust You in the waiting, to see Your hand in the delays, and to rest in the truth that Your timing is always perfect. Just as the sun rises faithfully each morning, let me hold on to the hope that joy and breakthrough will come. May I not grow weary at the stoplights of life but instead see them as moments to draw closer to You.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

The Danger of Hypocrisy

My grandmother used to say, “It’s better to be around a thief than a hypocrite.” At first, I didn’t fully understand what she meant, but as I’ve lived life, I see her wisdom. A thief may steal your possessions, but a hypocrite will steal your peace, your trust, and your sense of safety in a relationship. They are dangerous because they pretend to be one thing while secretly working against you.

The Bible gives us a clear example in Judas. In my eyes, Judas wasn’t just a betrayer he was a hypocrite. He pretended to be a friend, walking side by side with Jesus, breaking bread with Him, all while plotting to sell Him out for thirty pieces of silver (Matthew 26:14–16). Imagine the pain of knowing that someone you allowed in your inner circle was smiling in your face while plotting behind your back.

Hypocrisy is dangerous because it destroys the foundation of trust. Whether it’s a friendship, a family relationship, or even within the church, when people are not who they claim to be, the relationship can’t truly grow. Jesus warned against hypocrisy, especially in Matthew 23, calling the Pharisees “whitewashed tombs” who looked good on the outside but were corrupt within. It’s a reminder that God values authenticity and truth over appearances.

In my own life, I’ve had to learn to discern who is really for me and who is just around for their own gain. It hurts to realize some smiles aren’t genuine and some “I’ve got your back” promises are empty. But God is faithful, He reveals what is hidden in time. He teaches us that not everyone belongs in our circle, and that’s okay. What matters is that we remain true, not letting someone else’s hypocrisy cause us to harden our hearts.

If you’ve ever been hurt by a hypocrite, I want you to know that you are not alone. Even Jesus faced betrayal. But the good news is that God can heal that hurt and surround you with people who are genuine, loyal, and aligned with His will.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for teaching us the dangers of hypocrisy. Help us to be people of integrity whose words and actions align with Your truth. Lord, protect us from those who smile in our faces but harbor deceit in their hearts. Reveal the hearts of those around us, and give us wisdom to know who we can trust. Most importantly, help us never to fall into hypocrisy ourselves, but to live authentically and honor You in all we do.

In Jesus’ Name,
Amen

Having a Servant’s Heart

When you do anything for someone else, do it without expecting anything in return and without reminding them of your good deed. True servanthood is not about keeping score it’s about glorifying God.

For me, this is deeply personal. My love language is acts of service, so serving others with a heart of giving brings me joy. The way I feel most loved is not just through words, but through action. It’s the little things that matter, those thoughtful gestures that show genuine care.

Jesus modeled this perfectly during His time on earth. The Son of God, who had every right to be served, humbled Himself to serve others. He showed the Father’s love through His actions, even going so far as to wash the disciples’ feet (John 13:12–15). If that’s not humility, I don’t know what is. Jesus didn’t keep a tally of how many people He helped, nor did He boast about His good works. He simply loved, served, and ultimately gave His very life for our salvation.

That’s the kind of servant’s heart we are called to have. The next time you do something for someone, pause and ask yourself: Am I doing this out of love, or am I seeking recognition? A servant’s heart doesn’t need applause it only seeks to reflect Christ.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the perfect example of humility and service that Jesus gave us. Teach me to serve others with a pure heart not seeking recognition, but simply to glorify You. Help me to love in action as much as in word, and to find joy in serving as Christ did. May every act of service point others back to You.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

Enter the New Month with an Expectant Heart

As we step into a new month, let’s pause and remember the goodness of our God. The Bible reminds us in Lamentations 3:22–23 that “His mercies are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Every sunrise brings fresh mercy, fresh grace, and fresh opportunities. Yet, how often do we allow discouragement to cloud our hearts when the answers to our prayers seem delayed?

Sometimes we give up too quickly, not realizing that God is orchestrating something far greater than we imagined. He is not a God of half-finished promises. What He begins in you, He is faithful to complete. Proverbs 3:5–6 urges us to “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”

This month, choose to posture your heart with expectation. Don’t measure God’s power by yesterday’s disappointments. Instead, renew your mind with His Word, strengthen your faith in prayer, and anticipate the blessings He has already prepared for you. 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 tells us to “rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances.”

Your waiting is not in vain. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 2:9 that “no eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no human heart has conceived the things God has prepared for those who love Him.” Hold on to that promise as you step into this new month God is preparing to exceed your expectations.

Have a blessed and expectant month, sisters. Trust Him, He is faithful!

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for allowing me to see a new month. I enter this season with an expectant heart, believing that Your mercies are new for me today. Forgive me for the times I have doubted or grown weary while waiting on Your promises. Lord, strengthen my faith, renew my mind, and prepare my heart for the blessings You have already set aside for me. Teach me to pray without ceasing and to trust You in every step I take. I believe that this month will be filled with Your goodness, favor, and peace.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

The Importance of Truthfulness in Every Area of Life

One of the most defining qualities of God is truth, He is the God of truth (Deuteronomy 32:4) and His Word is truth (John 17:17). To follow Him is to live a life that is honest, transparent, and trustworthy.

Yet, if we are honest with ourselves, telling the truth in every situation can be a challenge. Sometimes we are tempted to exaggerate, to withhold details, or to tell what we call “little white lies” to avoid conflict or consequences. But lying, no matter the form, always leaves a crack in the foundation of trust. Over time, those cracks deepen, damaging relationships, breaking hearts, and most importantly, distancing us from God’s will.

Truth Reflects God’s Nature
Scripture reminds us that “God is not human, that he should lie” (Numbers 23:19). When we lie, we act contrary to His very nature. As children of God, we are called to reflect His truth in both word and action.

Truth Builds Trust
Proverbs 12:22 says, “The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” Trust is one of the most valuable gifts we can give and receive in a relationship. Once broken, it is incredibly hard to rebuild.

Truth Aligns Words and Actions
Jesus condemned the Pharisees because their words did not match their actions. They appeared righteous but their hearts and lives told a different story (Matthew 23:27-28). As believers, our integrity demands that what we say and what we do align with each other.

Truth Frees Us
Jesus said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32). Lies bind us, they require cover-ups, excuses, and more lies to maintain. Truth liberates us and allows us to live without fear of exposure.

Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5:1-11): They lied about their offering to appear more generous than they were. Their dishonesty cost them their lives, reminding us of the seriousness of lying to both God and people.

Abraham and Sarah (Genesis 20): Out of fear, Abraham lied about Sarah being his sister. His lack of trust in God not only put others in danger but also weakened his testimony.

Jesus: On the other hand, we see in Christ the perfect example of truth. He declared, “I am the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6). His entire ministry was built on living and speaking the truth, even when it led Him to the cross.

Being truthful means more than just avoiding lies. It means:

• Speaking honestly, even when it’s uncomfortable.

• Following through on commitments.

• Letting your “yes” mean yes and your “no” mean no (Matthew 5:37).

• Living in such a way that others never have to doubt your integrity.

• When we choose truth, we honor God, strengthen our witness, and create relationships built on trust and respect.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank you for being the God of truth. Forgive me for the times I have not walked in honesty, whether through words, actions, or silence. Help me to be a person of integrity, whose life reflects Your character. Give me courage to speak truth in love and to live a life where my words and actions align. May others see You in me through my honesty, and may I always bring glory to Your name.

In Jesus’ Name,
Amen

Seeking God First in Our Decisions

When you make a decision, do you seek God first, or do you only turn to Him when things don’t go your way? This is a question I often wrestle with in my own walk with the Lord.

I think back on the many choices I’ve made—some small, some life-changing—and I can’t honestly say every one of them was made after surrendering to God in prayer. If I’m being completely honest, I remember more of the times I asked God to fix or step into a situation I had already created, rather than the times I invited Him in before I took action.

Scripture is clear:

“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”  Matthew 6:33

God doesn’t call us to seek Him after the damage is done, but before the decision is made. His desire is to guide our steps, to protect us from unnecessary hurt, and to align us with His perfect will.

I confess that impatience has often led me to move ahead of Him. I’ve taken matters into my own hands, only to find myself in circumstances I later realized were never part of God’s plan. But even in those moments, His mercy amazes me. Because He is a loving Father, He rescues, restores, and redirects us back into His will.

That’s the beauty of His grace; He doesn’t abandon us when we stumble. He lovingly reminds us that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8–9) and that His will is always better than anything we could plan for ourselves.

So today, I encourage you (and myself) to pause before making that next decision. Big or small, ask God first. Invite Him into the process. And trust that even if His answer requires waiting, His timing is perfect and His will is good.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, I thank You for Your endless grace and mercy. Forgive me for the times I have rushed ahead without seeking You first. Teach me to surrender every decision to You, big and small, and to wait patiently for Your direction. Lord, align my will with Yours so that my life may reflect Your plans and purposes. Thank You for rescuing me when I stray and for restoring me with Your love. Help me to always remember that seeking You first is the key to walking in peace, purpose, and blessing.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Moment of Transparency

Lessons From the Highs and the Lows

As I get close to the end of 2025, I can’t help but pause and look back over the months behind me. Life has been a mix of incredible highs and painful lows, and in both places God has been present.

Some of the highs have been breathtaking: the joy of publishing my book, the official launch of the ministry website and Facebook page, the pride of watching my daughter graduate from college, my son thriving in his independence and the blessing of supporting my husband as he steps into new business ventures. I have witnessed God move powerfully in my life and in the lives of those I love, and for that, I am deeply grateful.

But alongside those moments of joy, I also found myself silently battling. Physically, my body felt like it was waging war against me. Pain, discomfort, constant fatigue, and relentless migraines left me drained. Mentally and emotionally, I was wrestling with anxiety, something I’ve battled for years. With the help of therapy and medication (another journey of acceptance in itself), I’ve begun to find balance. Yet even with that progress, there were days when I wanted nothing more than to pull the covers over my head and stay hidden away.

In those moments, I longed for people to show up for me, to send a call, a text, or even a word of encouragement. But instead, there was silence. The very people I expected to be there weren’t, and it was heartbreaking. The loneliness weighed heavily, and I struggled to keep showing up for my family and commitments when my own cup was empty.

Yet, in the quietness of that disappointment, God was gently teaching me to lean more on Him and less on others. He reminded me that while people may fail us, He never will:

“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” — Psalm 46:1

I also learned to treasure the support I did have my mother, my husband, my children, and the friends who gave without asking for anything in return. Slowly, I began to release the hurt, to make peace with my new normal, and to listen to my body and its needs. With the help of my doctors, I’m on the road to better health. And with prayer, I’m learning to accept that some people are only meant to be in my life for a season and that’s okay.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

If there’s anything this season has taught me, it’s this: no matter who comes and who goes, God remains my constant. His presence doesn’t fade. His love doesn’t shift with circumstances. And His promises never fail.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” — Hebrews 13:8

So as I close out this year, I do so with gratitude for the lessons learned, the strength I didn’t know I had, and the unwavering faithfulness of my Heavenly Father.

A Prayer

Father, I thank you for being my constant when everything else around me feels unstable. Thank you for walking with me through the highs and lows, for teaching me to lean on you when others cannot or do not show up. Heal my heart from places of hurt and disappointment, and continue to strengthen me physically, mentally, and spiritually. Help me to trust that you are working all things for my good, even when the road feels hard. Lord, let my story be a reminder to others that your presence is enough, and that in You we always find hope.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.